#- for the blacklist
i know this doesn’t need to be said, but just a gentle reminder that you don’t owe anyone anything - esp not today, you don’t owe anyone a post or a reblog about the report that was released today regarding the blackhawks
internet culture and tumblr in particular is very much “if you’re not talking about the thing that must mean you support it!!” and that’s just not the case
if today is triggering for you (as it is for me) you have no obligation to post anything or even be online today
please put yourselves and your mental health and peace first today and every day
love y’all ❤️
i hate that the message of this post is so relevant again, but please please my loves take care of yourselves and dont engage in discourse that will be harmful or triggering to you
when i and many survivors say that ”silence is complicity” it’s never about survivors or victims protecting their mental health and their peace - that declaration is directed towards the aggressors, the abusers, the administration, the bystanders, the ones who were told about it in locker rooms, every single person who knew and didnt do a damn thing about it
i love you, stay safe, stay healthy, put yourselves first and my dms are always always open
