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goalsmami:

i don’t care if I got 10 guys texting me, 15 guys calling me cute, 20 guys begging me for a chance. If it isn’t from who I want, I couldn’t care less

ABOUT YOU • DECEMBER 2019

Photographer: DAVID DAUB

Model: LORENA RAE

aureatestarlight:

Folks with this whole “you’re old once you hit 25” mentality are just buying into a repackaged “you need to have your life figured out by 18 and if you’re not successful by 22 you’re a failure” load of shit. Like….bruh, life doesn’t end at 25. Idk how to tell you that the time limit you’re silently imposing on yourself and your peers is largely responsible for your dissatisfaction with your life. Stop living your life like happiness has an expiration date. It doesn’t.

I think media has a lot to do with this.

I was explaining to my husband a while back that I thought I was a complete failure by the time 8 was 25 because I didn’t have a new car, a house of my own, and a career. And he was AGHAST at the fact that I thought that. He asked what made me think that and I explained that growing up watching movies and television and reading books that had protagonists that were in their middle twenties and super successful made me think that I was supposed to be the same way and the fact that I wasn’t (even though I left home at 19 years old with a 1.5 year old baby and nothing but my car, the clothes on our backs and ten dollars and therefore didn’t have any kind of chance of having a good start) meant that I’d failed my son and myself.

It seriously wasn’t until I was 29 and pregnant with my youngest son that I realized I wasn’t the only person my age who didn’t have my shit together. By the time I made it to 35 I started to feel like I knew what I was doing and even though I’m almost 40 I still occasionally have realizations that make me sad that I put expectations on myself that are still unrealistic.

What I know now is that failure is a good thing. To fail means you tried and you’ve learned something. Failure is a stepping stone to success. I’d rather fail at something then have it handed to me, because to fail means I worked for it, grew through it, and I earned it.

Society as a whole knows nothing about what an individual is capable of. Don’t let society define who YOU are, what makes you happy, what makes you successful, what makes you feel whole.

“It’s not about who left. It’s about who stayed and made you smile.”

its not about who left. its about who stayed and made you smileALT

mortimermcmirestinks:

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There is a secret callsign for [tumblr] users.

If you spot a wild [tumblr] human in the wild, you must tell them this phrase:

“I like your shoelaces.”

The appropriate reverse-call, if you hear this phrase, goes thusly:

“Thanks! I stole them from the president.”

I’m paying literal actual money for you to see this, so don’t let it be in vain. Use this phrase everywhere.

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isntitlovelybeinginlove:

I’ve been really craving dominance so much more than I usually do. Like I just want someone to possessively hold my waist while we wait in line at a grocery store, push me against the wall and kiss me senseless in our kitchen, firmly hold my chin while you’re talking just to let me know I need to give you all my attention, tie my hands up and touch me until I’m literally crying for all of you. Just do anything to make me feel taken care of and owned pls:(

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