my friends at work are now no longer speaking to me over my notice but like they’re short staffed so like I ain’t really sure how cutting me out is going to make me want to stay when they know the reason why is my ED especially
And they banned me without giving me an ability to answer that no, I *personally* wouldn’t say that, but it *still* doesn’t give a right for someone to rape the unwilling party.
Grow the fuck up or go to jail for promoting rape of gay people.
I would say that! Like in a heartbeat I would say that. I’m pretty sure I have said that.
So you tell people off for being fat and having an eating disorder but also willingly and on purpose trigger said eating disorder.
Yeah just fuck you
Just because for some people this blunt approach could be eye-opening doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. Specially if they have an ed and trying their best to treat it, professionals involved or not, you as an outsider aren’t one (even if you had similar experiences). Why would you purposely say that? Yeah, you don’t have to play into ones “delusions” (like some people call it) but intentionally doing that is morally questionable in my opinion. @transmedicalism-saves-lives
First off? Fat people don’t have restrictive eating disorders, they have excessive eating disorders. Anything that makes them eat less is doing a favor. Second, if they’re trying to sleep with me I have every right to inform them of the reason that ain’t gonna happen.
Yes to having that right, but saying it “in a heartbeat” sounds like not caring about them at all. As if you were doing them a favour by causing a guilty conscience. I like going by the rule if they can’t fix it within a minute keep it to yourself, especially if they are trying to fix it already. If they were pressuring you or whatever like cornering you by all means you don’t have to be nice imo. Personally I think your approach is unnecessarily provocative and will do more harm than good. People in general respond more to support and help than being that blunt.
Plus I think what they meant by “eating disorder” was anorexia/bulimia, not compulsive eating. Which is truly an assholish thing to do to someone with these disorders.
But yeah, you can reject someone without triggering dysphoria. There’s a big difference between “I’m not into trans people, sorry” and “FUCK YOU, YOU SICK DEGENERATE RAPIST, YOU’LL ALWAYS BE A HOMOPHOBIC MAN/WOMAN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO!!!”
Whatever happened to “you don’t need to give a reason to reject someone?”
Point taken. If you do give a reason, just don’t be an asshole about it.
It’s also incredibly vile to insist that fat people only have excessive eating disorders. If you refuse to acknowledge that anorexia can (and oftentimes does) occur in fat people, you’re… literally just a piece of shit, I don’t know how else to say it.
Anorexia is literally characterized by dangerously low body weight. This is what happens when people start self-dx’ing.
honey, you’re not a doctor, and you obviously know jack shit about eating disorders. please, for the love of god, look up “atypical anorexia” and stop spouting bullshit you have no clue about?
Dude you’re straight up wrong. Fat people aren’t limited to binge eating disorders. You’re clearly aware that you’re wrong and all you’re doing is digging yourself a deeper hole. You’re wrong. Get over it.
You don’t have to be at a dangerously low weight to be anorexic. You can catch an illness before it becomes incredibly serious and treat it then. Just because an anorexic fat person is however many pounds doesn’t mean they haven’t lost a large amount of weigh in a short period of time. It doesn’t mean they won’t eventually become dangerously underweight.
You know how when you stand up n you dont necessarily get “dizzy” so much as your vision gets a little speckled with tiny tiny black dots n you hear this ringing that drowns out all other noise n you have this strange pressure in your head till it goes away?
Wanna know something I always find stupidly ironic?
Every day, no matter what, I always ask my friends and family members if they had eaten.
“Hey hun, did you eat lunch yet?”
“Make sure you get somthing in you”
“Drink some water!”
“Oh honey you gotta have somthing, you’ve been working all day!”
“What’d you have? Oooo that sounds good!”
Yet not a single person. Not a single time. Did anyone ask me that in return. I know it’s stupid and self pitying as hell, but damn. Wouldn’t it be nice if someone asked.
If there’s one sure fire way I know I’m fat, it’s that no one ever has to make sure that I eat.
Napadowe objadanie się - cechy, które pomogą Ci je odróżnić od zwykłego przejedzenia się, ponieważ te dwie rzeczy często są ze sobą mylone. Dodatkowo według kryteriów diagnostycznych napadowe objadanie się musi występować co najmniej raz w tygodniu przez 3 miesiące.
BED - Napady objadania się mimo, że ich epizody są indywidualne to mają dwie wspólne cechy:
spożywanie nadmiernej ilości pokarmów (większość ludzi w podobnych okolicznościach zjadłaby o wiele mniej)
towarzyszy temu utrata kontroli nad jedzeniem
a) towarzyszące uczucia
Na samym początku objadanie się może być nawet przyjemne - smak jedzenia może sprawić radość, jednak jest to chwilowe. Potem pojawia się obrzydzenie, kiedy ilość spożywanego jedzenia jest jeszcze większa a niektóre osoby czują do siebie obrzydzenie, ale nie przerywają jedzenia.
b) tempo jedzenia
Spożywanie pokarmów jest zwykle szybkie. Większość osób napycha sobie usta tym, co wpadnie im w ręce - czasem nawet w ogóle tego nie przeżuwając.
c) inna świadomość
W trakcie epizodu napadowego objadania się osoby czują się jak w transie - to zachowanie wydaje się automatyczne. Towarzyszy też uczucie jakby ta osoba za to nie odpowiadała oraz nie mogła tego sama tatwo powstrzymać.
d) ukrywanie napadów
Charakterystyczną cechą jest utrzymywanie napadów w tajemnicy przed innymi osobami. Wstyd związany ze swoim zachowaniem jest ogromny. Spożywanie w towarzystwie innych osób normalnych/mniejszych ilości jedzenia a potem spożywanie dużych ilości jedzenia w miejscu, gdzie nikt ich nie nakryje.
e) utrata kontroli
Ta cecha odróżnia napadowe objadanie się od zwykłego przejedzenia. Osoba, która zaczyna się objadać nie potrafi przestać. Spożywa pokarm aż do nieprzyjemnego uczucia pełności oraz mimo nieodczuwania fizycznego głodu.
