#body policing
after gaining a whopping 5 pounds (on my, then, 103 pound body) that I no longer “had the body of an oriental” and the whole reason he found me attractive to begin with was that I was “a white girl with the body of a pre-pubescent Jap girl.”
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[TW Sexual Assault]
When I was fifteen, a friend of a friend forced me to suck him off and then forced his fingers into me in a park. When my friend came to find me, he whispered “I would have fucked you, but I don’t have a condom on me, and only sluts with STIs don’t shave their pussies” in my ear.
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[TW Self Harm]
I once had a guy who I was sleeping with at the time tell me that I had a hot body apart from my self harm scars and that I should get tattoos over them so they wouldn’t make him uncomfortable.
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I once had a bunch of guys tell me that they didn’t approve of my short skirts (that I had only put on because we were in Jamaica) because it made me look slutty, and then proceed to call me a slut because they found out I was bisexual and couldn’t make up my mind about whether I wanted c*** or p****. Joke’s on you, dearest male cousins, because I’m actually a decent person, which is why girls are happier to flirt with me than any of you.
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I once had a teacher tell me to not wear low cut shirts because I would “distract the other male teachers from teaching” by showing my cleavage. I was 13.
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[TW Eating Disorder]
I once had a guy (my ex, now) tell me that he wouldn’t date me anymore if I got fat. That was after I told him I was recovering from EDNOS.
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I once had my ex-boyfriend’s cousin tell me, after we’d broken up, that whilst we were together my ex had shown him pictures I’d sent meant for his eyes only (and I suspect he also showed him pictures he took of my body whilst I was asleep) from different stages in our relationship to complain about my weight gain.
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[TW Homophobia/Lesbophobia]
I once had a guy tell me I was “beautiful and should have no trouble finding a good fuck after dropping a few pounds” after I confided in him that I am a lesbian.
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I once had a guy tell me that i would only be considered attractive if I lost weight, fixed my teeth, and somehow managed to lighten my skin.
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