#burnout
Burnout is honestly such a mild word for what people use it to mean. I’m not experiencing “burnout”, which sounds so casual and routine that some face masks and a little rest is going to fix it.
My body and mind and even nervous system are stretched to the point that it’s going to take a lot more than just a “break” or a few self care tips to recover, and even then, my recovery is just so that I can reenter the spaces that contributed to me being this way in the first place. I’m a little bit more than just burnt out by this.
Workplaces and educational institutions aggressively overwork us, expose us to all kinds of discrimination, which they overlook and gaslight us out of acknowledging, and then constantly ask us to ignore our mental, emotional, and physical needs so that we don’t inconvenience them.
We’re not burnt out. We’re borderline traumatized. Burnout is always talked about like something transient and mild that a little rest and relaxation will fix.
But we’re exhausted. We need deep rest and healing. We need new systems. We need new ways of being. The language around burnout just seems like a way of upholding these current violent systems and downplaying their impacts.
Signs and symptoms of burnout
Physical
▫️ Feeling tired and drained most of the time
▫️ Lowered immunity, frequent illnesses
▫️ Frequent headaches or muscle pain
▫️ Change in appetite or sleep habits
Emotional
▪️ Sense of failure and self-doubt
▪️ Feeling helpless, trapped, and defeated
▪️ Detachment, feeling alone in the world
▪️ Loss of motivation
▪️ Increasingly cynical and negative outlook
▪️ Decreased satisfaction and sense of accomplishment
Behavioral
Withdrawing from responsibilities
Isolating yourself from others
Procrastinating, taking longer to get things done
Using food, drugs, or alcohol to cope
Taking out your frustrations on others
Skipping work or coming in late and leaving early
‼️ Dealing with burnout requires the “Three R” approach:
Recognize - watch for the warning signs of burnout
Reverse- undo the damage by seeking support and managing stress
Resilience - build your resilience to stress by taking care of your physical and emotional health
✍ Reframe the way you look at work
Support your mood and energy levels with a healthy diet (check my guide - Nᴜᴛʀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴛɪᴘs ꜰᴏʀ sᴛᴜᴅᴇɴᴛs)
Reevaluate your priorities
Talking to a mental health professional may help you discover the strategies you need to feel your best
Also, don’t be afraid to talk with your family and friends
It’s only Tuesday and I’m alreadyburnt out! My boss has really been micromanaging theheckout of me lately and it’s draining every ounce of joy out of what I do.
Currently, I’m spearheading 3 massiveprojects at work and am not permitted the autonomy to directly contact the faculty members intrinsic to each project. Instead, I have to send my boss a “May I please…”, wait for her response, then send out the desired communications. So many layers of red tape just to schedule an initial zoom discussion. Meanwhile, I’m being assessed on what I do or do not accomplish in terms of tangible results. Like, sorry bruh, it’s hard to put forth anything tangible when 99% of my job has devolved into just emailing people. I’m hoping things will improve now that I’m (obligatorily) back on campus.
Sometimes it’s better to just reschedule if you’re too tired for something at the moment. It’s not fun to admit you don’t have the energy for someone or something today, but ultimately it’s better than burning yourself out. Good job for communicating today.
Sorry I haven’t posted a lot in the last couple weeks. Thinkin’ of taking a break for a bit honestly, feeling sort of burnt out honestly. Gotta recover and get the juices flowing again.
This totally has nothing to do with the fact that I started playing World of Warcraft again with my guy and may be slightly addicted. Not at all. *grins*
I still have a few images ready to work on, but I just haven’t had the motivation to work lately. I’m hoping a break will fix that and I can get inspired again! I just want to thank you all for the support and love you’ve shown me the last year and I’ll be back soon with more beefy and chunky orc boys soon
Can you tell I’m burnt out? No? Good that’s how I want it.
I’m going to die if I keep going, but society doesn’t give breaks, especially not for mental health. So….I’ve just increased my workload… because burning fast and bright is less painful than the slow burn.
so you relate to like every ADHD/ADD mood/feel post on your dash!
but when you look up ADHD/ADD diagnosis guidelines, you see things like:
- ‘symptoms must have started in early childhood/by the age of 3/7/12’
- ‘symptoms must be disruptive in at least 2 out of 3 life arenas throughout life’
which …isn’t the case for you.
if you suffer from ADHD/ADD-esque concentration & follow-through issues as a late teen/adult, but you’re pretty sure that you weren’t having those symptoms early on/growing up: you might be dealing with burnout.
An increasingly-common affliction in the American working class, burnout is related to the brain being overworked &/or frequently or constantly flooded with stress hormones.
things that can trigger/lead to burnout:
- having a stressful/high-stakes life/job
- working long, tedious hours doing something that does not stimulate or relax the brain (such as rote homework)
- being bombarded by new information (i.e. social media)
- constant anxiety about money/health/basic life necessities
- lacking the means for/neglecting necessary self-care (getting enough sleep & eating properly)
- having to constantly choose between too many options without meaningful ways of narrowing the choices down (i.e. shopping online)
- all of the above w/a minimal or nonexistent support network
in other words: burnout is induced by living the average life of like 90%* of American adults under the age of 40!!!!
(*not a real statistic. I’m just saying a lot of us millennials/gen z ppl are burning out.)
burnout can look a LOT like adult ADHD/ADD because it seriously fucks with executive function. some symptoms ADHD/ADD & burnout have in common:
- struggling to concentrate
- feeling paralyzed when asked to make decisions
- procrastinating on ‘simple’ or ‘nonessential’ tasks
- difficulty prioritizing work/errands/tasks
burnout also takes on depression-like symptoms such as:
- feeling tired, exhausted, &/or irritated all the time
- feeling like nothing matters/everything is ‘the same’
- isolating oneself from others
- changing appetite
the thing about burnout is: even if it looks like ADHD/ADD (or depression) to you, the treatment for burnout is nothing like the treatment for ADHD/ADD (or depression). it mostly involves getting rest & reducing stress (as if most of us have this option, but that’s a post for a different blog!) this is why it’s important to get the correct diagnosis - so the treatment can be the right one.
of course, that being said:
- people with ADHD/ADD can also get burnout. in fact, ADHD/ADD can exacerbate burnout symptoms: it’s already hard enough to make decisions when the brain is healthy, much less when it’s so stressed you can barely think!
tl;dr:
because capitalism is a cruel mistress, a lot of people are just struggling to executive function b/c we’re burnt out by stressful, non-stop lives with no work-life separation and too many too-same buying options every time we try to buy something as simple as dish soap.
if you’re pretty sure you don’t have ADHD/ADD (or cousin developmental disorders such as ASD) but severely struggle with concentration/executive function, or you feel like you have ADHD but lack the developmental history to back it up: you might have burnout.
and your problems are still valid & still deserve treatment & management!
Hey psst…
Use the cake mix that comes in a box. Use jarred pasta sauce. Use preseasoned meat. The correspondences are still there. Save your energy my dear.
I saw a post somewhere not too long ago that said “Don’t apologize for doing/buying things that make life easier for you.”
You do not need to earn your place in the world through struggle. If there are things you can do or get that help you and they are readily available GET THEM!!!! That way you can use your time and energy for things that are good for you which includes things that just make you happy!
This goes for more than just witchcraft.
“Set your heart ablaze…”
- I know I might be jumping on to the bandwagon here, but this just made me cry.
I am experiencing a burnout. I am struggling at work in a job that’s not what I really wanted in the first place, but I can’t quit because I need to earn for the budget, bills, and etc. (being the breadwinner).
It’s not easy. I have plans for myself but I need to set them aside and prioritize what’s more important at the moment. It’s as if I keep on working, but not towards what I actually want to achieve.
Not to mention the type of job I have is reallystressful.
Every day. And then again. Another week. A month. It’s all the same. But I’m not moving.
It’s just burning me out. And when Rengoku said those words, I just couldn’t hold it in.
The other day @HowtoADHD was asking what we understood as #burnout and thought it would be a nice idea to illustrate. We need to check in with ourselves from time to time and understand what we need to balance. Burnout is no joke, so please try to listen to your body!
So, this time of year is great because my seasonal depression is stacking on top of my regular depression, and my holiday shopping anxiety is stacking on top of my regular anxiety. Double the fun in my brain! Woo-hoo! X_X
On twitter I’m seeing dozens of threads from Black activists warning people against burnout, giving all sorts of useful tips about preventing and managing it for the sake of a long-term, sustainable effort.
On tumblr I’m seeing a hell of a lot of young white kids yelling at anyone who actually follows those steps, and acting like burnout is a moral falling rather than a well-proven psychological phenomenon.
Be careful who you get your information from. Don’t let guilt lead you to make choices that will harm both you and the movement.
I’m going to reblog this again since I see more individuals are inquiring about burnout prevention tips in the notes and it’s why I sought out this resource. I hope it helps you!
Burnouts are not only real, but can cause actual physical damage to your cell structure, especially in the brain. This is why they find activists who burn out never return to the cause. It can take months, and sometimes even years to recover from bad burnouts if you do not also have a quality way to help recover from them.
You MUST take breaks, and let other people take breaks. It’s not weakness, it’s not lack of dedication, it is not selfish, it’s vital and important and a part of maintaining your health. Burnout has real, sometimes permanent consequences and must be taken seriously.
It can cause and exacerbate anxiety and depression disorders, it lowers your immune system (And we’re in the middle of a pandemic still), and it will permanently alter your ability to be passionate about the thing that caused it (And part of being an activist is passion. That’s what keeps people there).
Rest and recovery are just as important, if not moreso, than actually doing whatever you were doing that meant you need rest and recovery. R and R allow you to continue exercising, training, doing activism, the list goes on.
Needing to rest and recover does not mean you are a bad or lazy person, it means you are a person who needs to take a break. So take the break, it’s far better to be able to continue doing these things long term instead of for a short while and needing to leave for your own health.
-FemaleWarrior, She/They
after this fire has burned everything to the ground
i wonder who will stand among the ashes
and tell us,
“we did all we could.
this is a [damn] shame.”
if we wake up from this nightmare–
(because remember
some of us will not be waking up
and for some of us
it was your choices
that will bury us)
–i wonder who will look back and say,
“we got through this
together.”
we could point fingers
many already have;
we could say, “it’s your fault, their fault, his fault”
but let us not forget
our world was already crumbling before it was set aflame
the fire was beyond anyone’s control
(things would have crumbled regardless,
but it’s true–
there is a difference between crumbling
and being razed to the ground)
and while we were all burning
let us not forget
that some were warming their hands by the fire;
and some, the even more detestable few,
they lined their wallets with our cries for help.
(at a time when there was not enough to go around;
isn’t it just human nature
that the wealthy few
continued to walk over our hollowed spines
to enter the mansions housing their riches?)
after this fire has burned everything there is to burn
i wonder if i will just be ash
blown away on the wind
or if i will become the fire
that lives to consume everything in rage
to feed the emptiness scraped out of me
by every loss
by every struggle
by every injustice
by every time i was told
in no uncertain terms
that something
someone
everything
was more important
than how deeply the burning had set in my flesh
(”don’t you know?
you’re one of the lucky ones.
at least you havea job,
and besides?
didn’t you
sign up for this?”)
when this fire has burned everything away
will i feel clean, instead?
left behind by all those around me with too much self-respect
to let the fire conquer them–
will it re-teach my soul the lightness that was stolen?
after this fire
will everything just go back to being exactly the same?
(just one slight breeze from breaking)
after this fire
who will be next in line
to tell me i’m unimportant,
disposable,
and
oh-
so-
flammable?
Perhaps one of the greatest things this virus has robbed us of:
Time
The time to spend cuddling the little ones growing up too fast
The time to spend with our loved ones that left us too soon
The time to breathe between crushing shifts at the bedside
The time to properly mourn all these lost moments
The time to give ourselves the grace to let ourselves fall
And the time to pick ourselves back up, skinned knees and all
We have been broken by this virus that drowned us in the undertow
Choking every last scrap of faith we may have held;
Suffocating the little bit of hope left in the recesses of our souls;
Fracturing an already sick system at every fault line that went ignored far too long,
And ensuring that we lacked the
Time
We need to heal.