#life tips
Sometimes… things that feel good in the short term… are worse.
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Good Life Tips
Sucking dick is healthy
For you, him, and the relationship
Eating pussy is healthy
For you, her, and the relationship
Truer words have never been spoken.
Transition Signals:
Transitions are words and phrases that connect ideas and show how they are related.
To repeat and ideas just stated:
- In other words,
- That is,
- To repeat,
- Again,
To illustrate an idea:
- For example,
- For instance,
- In particular,
- To illustrate,
- In this manner,
- Thus,
To announce a contrast, a change in direction:
- Yet,
- However,
- Still,
- Nevertheless,
- On the other hand,
- In contrast,
- Instead of,
- On the contrary,
- Conversely,
- Notwithstanding,
- In spite of this,
Time:
- At once,
- In the interim,
- At length,
- Immediately,
- At last,
- Meanwhile,
- In the meantime,
- Presently,
- At the same time,
- Shortly,
- In the end,
- Temporarily,
- Thereafter,
To restate an idea more precisely:
- To be exact,
- To be specific,
- To be precise,
- More specifically,
- More precisely,
To mark a new idea as an addition to what has been said:
- Similarly,
- Also,
- Too,
- Besides,
- Furthermore,
- Further,
- Moreover,
- In addition,
To show cause and effect:
- As a result,
- For this reason,
- Thereafter,
- Hence,
- Consequently,
- Accordingly,
Conclusion:
- In short,
- To conclude,
- In brief,
- On the whole,
- In summary,
- To sum up,
Important
Reblogging again bc I need this at the moment
no seriously, my life became so much better once i swapped all the self-deprecating jokes for “i love myself” jokes
i think it’s so easy to get caught up in hating yourself, even if it’s as a joke. at some point, you start to internalize what you’re saying because the self-deprecating jokes are just coming out so naturally and easily. at some point, you have to realize that you don’t want to – and you can’t – grow in an environment where you’re constantly making comments that belittle yourself. you have weaknesses, but you also have strengths. and i don’t know about you, but i’d much rather convince myself that i’m person worth love and attention than one not
As soon as I started responding to compliments with over-dramatic self-love I genuinely disliked myself less.
“Hey, really good job on that project this week.”
*hair flip as I speak like a fancy Victorian woman* Well, finally someone notices my talents and skill.
“I like your outfit.”
Yes I look fantastic as fuck thank you for noticing.
“You look nice today”
*faking coyness* WHO????? MEEEEE????? *places my hand over my heart and kicks my foot up in the air* Yes I know, thank you so much.
Even when you mess up, it’s still funny and a little motivating to make jokes about how great you are doing. Every time I horribly mess up something at work I do a little chef’s kiss and imitate Gordon Ramsey giving compliments. “Well, that’s just fantastic, quite like that, really wonderful.” Everyone around you is much more likely to have a laugh than if you start saying stuff like “wow, I suck at everything I attempt, I’m the worst.”
GUYS! FREE EBOOKS!!
I just stumbled onto this site that lets you read FREE ebooks of classic literature. This is a phenomenal site for studying or just reading for fun.
Here’s the link: https://ebooks.adelaide.edu.au/
Seriously go read some books. I’ve only lightly browsed but I saw the Great Gatsby, Tom Sawyer and the collection of Sherlock Holmes stories as well as HUNDREDS of others
- Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all
- Renounce useless guilt
- Fall in love with inner beauty
- Create your own space
- Be brave enough to be bad at something new
- When things change inside you, things change arround you
- Spend time with people who matter most
- Asking for help does not make you weak
- Change is uncomfortable but necessary
- Read more classic literature
- Read about history from different sources
- Buy less clothes and make sure they are made organically and ethically or buy second hand
- Learn to say No
- Deflecting someone who compliments you isn’t modest it’s insulting
- Your boundaries will scare some people away, it’s fine! let them go
- Compliment yourself
- Your mental and physical health are always your priority
- Take a bath and notice how great your body is
- Be mindful of the things you put into your body emotionally, spiritually and physically
- Your diet is not only what you eat, it’s what you watch, what you listen to, what you read and with who you spend your time with
- Don’t let the internet rush you
- Start believing that nothing is too good for you
- Get enough sleep
- Buy vegan options in anything that’s possible
- Keep it private until you know it’s permanent
- Enjoy experience more than materials
- Stay in your healing
- Your scars are symbols of your strength
What can you write in a journal for mental health?
Recently I was looking for some stickers and I found a tiny journal. I’m thinking of using it for mental health purposes.
These are the things I’ll write in it:
- Quotes that I find very motivational
- Moments from books that inspire me.
- Reasons why I like myself
- Reasons why others like me
- How I have improved my life with tiny changes
- Short plans on how to achieve certain goals or how to change things
- Bucket lists~
- Things that make me happy
- Character analysis for characters that inspire me and what traits I want to adopt from them
- Stuff that my friends said and they stuck with me over the years, motivational or just compliments
- My favorite coping mechanisms
- Compliments/encouraging words towards my person when I feel like giving up or when my self-esteem is down
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#1 If you put your phone in airplane mode, it will charge twice as fast.
#2 he little arrow on your gas gauge is there to tell you what side your gas tank is on.
#3 The best time to buy anything in 2014
#4 How to turn any smartphone camera into a macro lens. (Note: the spelling error is not ours.)
#5 Hate shoulder bumps from hanging sweaters? Do this:
#6 Eat Cheetos or Doritos with chopsticks to keep the dust off your fingers.
#7 G-E-N-I-U-S
#8 Debone your chicken wings like this: Pull the cartilage at the end off, then work out the small bone…
#9 Stop hammering your thumb.
#10 Don’t like hangers but prefer drawers? This is how you should stack your clothes
#11 This is how you organize underneath your sink.
#12 How to cook corn with no mess and no dishes
#13 Awesome smelling bathroom, all the time
#14 Peel a banana by squeezing the bottom and pulling it apart when it cracks.