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Can y’all stop forcing celebrities to have to say that they’re actually not non-binary and instead they’re just gnc.
Whenever a celebrity is gnc, instead of initially celebrating it, people are like ‘this celebrities comes out as non-binary? This celebrity is now trans?’
And then they have to explain that they don’t see clothing as guys clothing or girls clothing and they just want to wear whatever they want
And THEN people celebrate it, even though some people online think they just haven’t realized they’re trans yet.
With how minuscule the probability of someone being trans is, can people just appreciate the initial thought that a celebrity is breaking free of gender norms therefore helping younger kids realize they can be gnc too.
Let gnc people EXIST
Y'know, there’s actually quite a few sex researchers now who believe that the number of trans individuals is actually a lot lower than the current number. What they believe is that individuals are actually gnc, get depression when they aren’t accepted as a boy or a girl, and then develop body dysmorphia as a symptom of their depression. Which actually makes a lot of sense because some brain scans of trans individuals look like “this is the other gender’s brain,” but some brain scans look like “this is just a regular person with depression.”
I’m not saying that all transgender people are just gnc with bad experiences, but according to the research, a lot are. And this may be why the trans community has such high suicide rates. So instead of insisting that people are trans or bi when they do something that isn’t stereotypical of their gender (whether it’s wearing clothes, having a hobby, behaving Butch/effeminately) like people on this site are wont to do, you should just accept people like! they! are!
You’re not gonna like it when you find out about how the LGBT community treats cross dressers. People are actively witch hunting them, telling them they’re just in the closet because wearing a dress for fun totally means that you have to be a girl right??? It’s not like cross dressing is a performance similar to drag or cosplaying where people get dressed up and put on a different persona…
On another note, can we please stop with the “If you have to question if you’re trans, then you absolutely are trans, sweaty!!!” bullshit? Questioning our identity is how we solidify it and grow more comfortable with it. Pestering people that the slightest bit of doubt about their gender identity is undoubtedly evidence that they are trans, is just furthering their misery. You are not “saving” people, you are actively contributing to the raising numbers of detransitioner and suicide cases.
Cross dressing, drag, and gender non conformity, while it may have some ties, is not lgbt. People who identity with or participate in those things mentioned may be lgbt, but doing those things doesn’t make them lgbt.
So if a cis/het person wants to participate? Let them. They’re allowed. It’s not rude or ignorant or appropriation. They’re not hurting anyone by having fun like the rest of the people there. Stop forcing them to think they’re something they’re not.
that’s terf rhetoric fam sorry :/ saying that a lot of trans people are just gnc ppl being pressured into being trans :// is like PEAK terf rhetoric :/ you’re a terf now :/ sorry :/
If you take a quick peak at my blog you’d see I absolutely despise TERFs.
Nothing wrong with being confused and thinking you’re trans, happens to plenty of people and hey gender identity can be weird and difficult.
It’s toxic to pressure GNC/crossing dressers to identify as trans. I’m not saying most trans people are that case, but there are handfuls of people who are simply just a non conforming cis person. That’s okay. Nothing wrong with it at all.
This post is bad, ur bad, and anyone who uncritically reblogged this is bad. Seriously. Stop fucking shaming people for their pronouns and genders wtf???? Gross
You just defended space alien as a legitimate gender, good job.
Do you fucking transtrenders have any idea how difficult you’re making it for legitimate trans people to be taken seriously? Do you even fucking understand what a gender is? A gender isn’t a fucking aesthetic. It’s not a feeling, an animal, a colour, a fashion, or any other sparkly snowflake bullshit. A gender is literally the way your brain is biologically wired. There are millions of people who suffer and face dangerous discrimination because their genders don’t match their bodies, and you tweenyboppers are making it into a fucking trend that you can wear like a brooch or a scarf? Fuck you.
legimate autistic trans person: this mogai shit, especially neurogenders and your “autigender”, harms us
some cis kid: lmao mean gatekeeper
Me, neurodivergent and nonbinary: neopronouns arent necessary and saying that people like me “need” them to “properly express” our gender makes us out to be dumb toddlers.
Some cisgender neurotypical: you’re ableist >:((((
y’all really have to stop implying all non-binary people are afab in your posts. you need to stop implying that all non-binary people with flat chests are viewed as “androgynous” and not just afab people. y’all need to start including amab trans people in your politics, especially transfeminine nb people.
Can cishet people stop telling LGBTQ+ people that they’re lucky to have basic support and acceptance? I shouldn’t be considered lucky because my parents didn’t kick me out when I came out. I’m not lucky to have parents that have “let” me transition. I’m not lucky that my friends aren’t transphobic or homophobic.
Telling people they’re lucky for having bare minimum support makes it seem like where society is right now is fine and that we don’t have to improve. It’s like saying that having good support shouldn’t be a norm or bare minimum. It’s definitely very gas lighty.
If you’re an ally and you see this, correct yourself and move on. I understand why this happens, just don’t say it again.
I’m coming out to all my teachers today and honesty. They’re all super nice. My gym teacher even told me I could change in the bathrooms rather than a locker room!
I know I’ve been away for a little while. Mostly because I’ve burnt myself out and my messaging doesn’t work for some reason. However I have been busy putting together a collection for pride month of pride and anime embroideries. I’ve also opened an Etsy to sell these embroideries to afford my HRT and a new binder (My old one is falling apart). I’ll be selling t-shirts, patches, hoops, and face masks on my Etsy ThreadyToGoDesign. It would mean a lot for you to check it out and if you like something I’ve kept my rates low to make them affordable. This has been my passion project and I’d love to share it with you!
If you’re interested tell a friend! Patches have free shipping and everything else has reduced shipping rates so it’ll get to you quickly. And if you’re in the US and spend over 35$ you get free shipping! So check me out, I’d really love it!
young nonbinary people listen to me. you do not have to tell people your agab. you do not have to tell people if you are tme or tma. do not feel like you have to tell people if you are afab or amab; nobody has the right to know. nobody! not even other trans people, not even people who are your friends! that is your body and you do not have to tell anybody how you were assigned at birth. nobody needs to know what “type” of nonbinary person you are. & if someone gets pissy at your for not revealing extremely personal information, block that asshole.
Being a nonbinary lesbian is like I don’t have a gender but my gender is dyke and I’m not aguy but I am one of the guys and also I’m not a woman but when people talk about women I’m included. Hope this clears things up
Gentle reminder that memes and inside jokes relating to human identity, such as race, gender, sexuality, ableness, neurodivergency, etc. don’t always apply to everyone in that ingroup, and if you don’t relate to all the fun jokes in a community, your identity is still valid. People are complex and one person with that identity may not share the same experiences and feelings as another. I think that makes every person so special and a point to be celebrated.
