#rb from other
I feel insulted and blessed at the same time
I mean you’re not wrong
ohh yay april fools is coming up /sar
pls remember to tag unreality on april fools !!!! just bc its april fools doesn’t mean u get to post unreality w/o consequences. be mindful of psychotic people and people with paranoia. dont start huge rumors or spread political misinformation
non-psychotics r obligated to rb this btw
Psychology textbook diagrams never cease to amaze me
ok y'all this isn’t a psych textbook gaslighting you into thinking it’s normal and ok for your boss to yell at you, it’s specifically about understanding that other people’s treatment of you is usually more about them than you.
If your boss is pissy with you, it’s absolutely more healthy to understand that behavior as a reflection of his mental state rather than of your worth as an employee.
It’s not a psych textbook’s job to advise you how to improve your workplace or say what is/isn’t acceptable treatment by a boss. It’s an example of detaching your own self-worth from how other people treat you.^^THIS!
In fact, if you let yourself think of other people’s treatment as a reflection on YOU more than it is on THEM, it can prevent you from getting things done.
Or, in other words,
ok, im rb'ing this again because this actually helped me finally be able to take advantage of cognitive restructuring in a way i’ve struggled to do for a long time. Ive been able to get to the my boss was having a bad day part, but i’ve always struggled to use that mental change to do something that would improve the situation. but because of this diagram, i THINK ive got it figured out. Here’s a rough explanation of how I interperet this.
Real life example:
Boss yelling: My mom is snapping at me, calling me “disrespectful” no matter how I speak to her, and getting mad at me for having missing assignments
He was having a bad day: She’s stressed due to my grandma being in the hospital
He shouldn’t take it out on me: just because she’s stressed doesn’t mean she gets to be mean to me.
Unionize:I advocate for myself, saying that I’m not being disrespectful and that it’s okay to have missing assignments because I’m doing my best
Fuck his wife: I am unapologetically proud of myself for what i manage to do in a day, especially if my mom disapproves of it or doesn’t view it as productive, as my own little “fuck you” to her.End result: no depression.
This actually works and its amazing. Thanks to the meme side of tumblr for accidentally developing a highly effective method for coping with people who treat you like shit
i hope you realise i have immediately added ‘unionise! fuck his wife! no depression!’ to my mantras for living
Step aside live laugh love
As a bisexual, it sickens me that some people WILL keep scrolling.
As a she/he/they enby, who identifies as gay:
Me a nonbinary lesbian:
*rebloggs this post faster then the speed of light*
as a queer person, I will of course support the marriage I’ll most likely have in the future.
as a she/they pansexual, ofc I will
not stating my sexuality
he/they gay getting in your way
I’m a bisexual who’s constantly having gay panics
as a he/they genderfluid bisexual, i definitely support this
I’m gay and I want this shirt
I really hate having to ask, but I’m desperate. My first post lost traction so I’m starting anew. I have a job but it pays minimum wage and my stepdad has been stealing 50% of each of my paycheck since I was 16, for “rent.” He is physically and verbally abusive and makes my mental illnesses a million times worse. I cannot transition at all while in this house. If I put on makeup or fem clothes he screams how I’m a p*ssy or a f*ggot and threatens to kick me out on the streets. He slaps me around when he gets drunk, which is happening more and more often. I know it’s the holidays, but if someone could help me fund a safe living situation, it would be the best present I ever received. If you cannot donate, please share this post so it can reach people who can.
I’m so sorry, I would donate if I could, but I don’t have anything to give. I really hope things get better.
Found this on a subreddit and I nearly fucking choked.
Reblog to yeet away your followers’ dysphoria.
The spirit of Diogenes is alive and well
This is funny, obviously, but even if you don’t go to the extreme of the example above, this is a separate seat for one person, with a back and 4 legs:
But it’s not a chair. It’s a bar stool.
This, however, are all chairs:
Each one is missing at least one component of the chair definition above.
So like… it’s almost like strict definitions are exclusionary.
Reblog to hit a transphobe with a separate seat for one person
Reblog to hit a
transphobe with a separate
seat for one person
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
Reminder that Graham Linehan ruined his own marriage because of his transphobia. He also showed dick pics to women on Mumsnet and he got kicked off. He’s a slimy piece of shit.
Wow. Hit him in particular especially hard with a chair.
enough flat earth round earth, I wanna talk about
EGG EARTH
Please do