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Hi guys and dadys, today is April 18.

I have been locked up for a month and a few weeks in quarantine.

I am an artist (illustrator and tattoo artist) it is a difficult situation, I would like to find a sugar daddy or a patron who supports me financially. Currently my computer I work with has broken …

Uhhhhh I need a new one

finding an actual sugar father is hard

Custom videos too :p theres more to this video if you wanna see hit me up losers.

Remember if a sugar daddy doesn’t want to see you yet asks for any payment (verification fees, bank info, gift cards, etc), they are a scammer. No real sugar daddy will ask you to send them money. Screenshots can easily be faked. Report and block

Edit: If he wants to send you a check and then asks for money back, that check will initially clear and then bounce. Don’t accept anything besides Cashapp, Venmo, Zelle, and cash.

@_bambidoe is actually my ultimate bimbo goal. Bbl goal. Baby face goal. Dimple goal (yes there’s a way lol). High value girlfriend goal. Career goal. A total icon. I’m so obsessed

When he treats you like a princess but fucks you like a slut

Me:

Previews of the drawing I’m coloring <3

Previews of the drawing I’m coloring <3


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During the last few years, sugar dating has become really popular among 18-28 year-old girls and women. Several websites have literally exploded with new sugar babes looking for their daddies, and in fact a few articles have demonstrated that up to 3-5% of the 18-28 year-old girls are enlisted as a sugar babe in certain countries. However, most of the girls seem to be completely ignorant about the facts that sugar daddies are looking for and how the sugar dating works.

1. Sugar dating sites are not regular dating sites

Dating websites have a hugely distorted demographics to the girls’ advantage. The female-male ratio can be as imbalanced as 1:8. This is not true with the sugar dating sites, where the this ratio is often practically reversed. You need to unlearn the “queen of the hill” attitude that you have learned from regular dating sites. In sugar dating, girls are competiting for the best daddies, not the other way around.

2. Sugar dating is not innocent

Many girls have a delusion from TV that sugar dating is just about handsome and rich older men buying you stuff and taking you to the high life parties, without anything but your company in return. In truth, maybe a few percent of the daddies want to do it this way, which distorts the demographics even further. For each 100 sugar babes, there are perhaps one to three daddies who are like this. Most daddies are there to fulfill their sexual fantasies and fetishes with younger beautiful girls.

3. There are very beautiful young open-minded girls out there

Remember, that most of the daddies are looking for something in exchange for their excess money. Unless you are really beautiful, young and open-minded, the chances are very, very, low that you will find a daddy who is good looking, very wealthy and wants to sponsor you without return services. Most sugar dating sites have a small percentage of extremely good looking girls who are being cherry picked before anyone will even take a look on the other girls.

4. Bring up your best sides

Although most daddies are looking for the beauties, an average girl can make herself a lot more attractive to some daddies by bringing up their best sides. Some daddies love big boobs, innocent and young looking girls, girls with glasses, girls with braces, chubbies, slutty look et cetera. Make sure that you highlight any of these features in your photos. Taking only a picture of your face if you’re chubby, or not wearing you glasses if you actually wear them pays you nothing. Men are full of fetishes, and those fetishes can often override everything else. Most sugar daddies have a lot of fetishes!

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5. Forget about findom

If you are looking for findom, there are perhaps one daddy for each 1000 girls available. Better forget it, unless you are very, very special.

6. Forget your bad attitude and complaining

No one is interested in your bad attitude. Most of the daddies want just easy, fun and otherwise satisfying company. They don’t want to listen your complaining or to be exposed to your bad attitude.

7. Do not tell your opinion on the daddy’s taste unless asked

If the daddy likes something that you don’t, keep that information on yourself unless he asks about your opinion about it. If he does, never be hostile! If the daddy has a fetish or something that pleases him, never say “that’s disgusting”, unless it is that so disgusting that you don’t want to interact with him anymore. Remember, that unlike in normal dating where guys often have to give away their fetishes and other preferences, sugar dating is something where the girls need to make compromises. Good daddies always find girls who are willing to satisfy their needs, were you part of it or not. Being open-minded is the key to success being a good sugar babe.

8. Be an active pleaser

Good daddies are rare, but so are good sugar babes, too. Never be skimpy. Some sugar babes only do nice things to the daddy after the daddy has done nice things to them. Forget this! Please him, surprise him and make him feel great. This makes the sugar dating feel more like a relationship instead of being a private whore (unless that turns you both on) and increases the mutual trust between you.

9. Always be the perfect yourself

Find out what your daddy likes and be like that. Always. You must give an impression that you are a unique perfect girl. Make the daddy addicted to you!

10. Obey

If your daddy wants to know something, tell him. If he wants to have a video or photo of you while he’s on a trip, send that video or photo. Tease him and make him want to take the next flight back to have fun with you!

11. Respect the rules and keep your promises

Most daddies have rules and it is your job to respect them. If you can’t do it, don’t do sugar dating at all. This same applies vice versa. You probably want that your daddy is not having unprotected sex on his trip to Brazil or Thailand, either.

12. Be discreet

Sugar dating is very intimate. Never talk about your daddy or you relationship with anyone unless you have a permission to do it. This same applies to daddies. Keep those photos and videos in a secure place and never share them with anyone without permission.

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I could really use a cute choker

I could really use a cute choker


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Someone should pick out some outfits for me

Someone should pick out some outfits for me


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sugarbbyxo:

sugarbbyxo:

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip


Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him


Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites


Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics


The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion


Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience


Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips


Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list


Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby


Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar


General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected


Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!


Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs


All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance


POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date


“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”


Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 


Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

Can’t believe this has 3k notes!

Every bitxh needs a SD

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