Just sharing the joy with my brown sugar sisters. As a single mom you dread getting a phone call that your kid is sick. You can’t even think about your sick kid you’re more concerned with how you’re gonna get out of work. Will there be repercussions? How will we live missing those hours, that money? It felt really good to just think about my kid sashaying out the office to spend the afternoon cuddling, changing diapers and online shopping with daddy’s card because “man that must have been rough on baby girl” you’re damn right it was :) . Knowing I could make the money I’d make in that whole day ten times over in a few hours tonight once she resting soundly in bed if I wanted to is the most comforting feeling I’ve EVER FUCKING FELT.

Today’s lesson:

Don’t sleep on your Splenda.

I’ve known HD for a few months and he’s the sweetest man. The best kind of Splenda. The 3 dates we’ve had were all super fun exciting things, and once he randomly treated me to a mani pedi after work that I didn’t ask for. The other day while we were planning a date I hinted I needed a coat. He said we’d pick one up on the way @ Burlington Coat Factory of course my snobby nose turned up. I would never let on to that though so I just went along. It wasn’t what I thought I got a beautiful Michael Kohrs coat and any and everything else I wanted including Burberry perfume that smells like Gods ball sweat and some great pieces for the office. $500 goes A LOT further in there. Then we had lunch at Saltgrass and went to the pier to ride roller coasters. Before he dropped me off he handed me the wad of cash in his pocket and said my favorite sentence “take the 20s out and give me the rest back” Just to go on dates with me. (We kissed with tongues today lol). Dream day for this middle class princess.

Xoxox

Ursula

12.1.2015

My visit home went great. The gentleman I met on OKC that flew us (my daughter and I) out was just that, a gentleman. And much more handsome in person. He already had travel plans for thanksgiving so our trips over lapped to where we’d have just one night. He took me shopping where I picked up this over priced lingerie set that I’m obsessed with. Modeled live from his bachelor pad bathroom .
For dinner we went to a delicious Fogo De Chao knock off. He was pretty head over heels for me so hopefully this will be a reoccurring tryst. It was so good seeing all my family and friends. Even better that it didn’t cost me anything.

Xoxox,

Ursula

Taking a very special trip. It’s a sugaring milestone. The thing that first thrusted me into sugaring in May is that I wanted to go home to visit my family. I ended up paying for that trip my self. It’s expensive paying for me and my daughter. 6 months later flying us both home for Thanksgiving on the dime of a man I’ve done nothing but text with. He’s from my home town found me on okcupid. My SD here in town is taking care of my rental car, hair, and a new luggage set ✈ ️United fucked mine up in May. Full circle.

Xoxox,

Ursula

Haven’t posted in awhile I see the messages and yes I’m alive. The past couple of months I’ve been trying to get out of the bowl be “normal”. But they always say when you stop looking for it, it will find you. I got an allowance and a spa get away this weekend from a man I actually like a lot. I’ve also got a great splenda/sidehoe combo that enjoys tricking on the weekend. Things are going pretty well.

Xoxoxo,

Ursula

So today I went to the bank for a money order and didn’t have my wallet it was a whole whoblah trying to get into my account to get money. A lovely investment manager helped me. And seemed overly interested in my day I told him about my boyfriend, or ex who knows. not gonna lie I cried a little. He literally said that my boyfriend needs to understand that women require more money I couldn’t buy the money order at Chase because I didn’t have my ID so he called across to an H-E-B to make sure that it could be done and sent me over. When I got there it was waiting for me. He sent this text later on. He had to of gone into the system and got my number. Is he moving on me? Is this a move? Do i care? He had a trump calendar on his desk. I was going to text “did you just move on me like a bitch? Because I’m into it” lmao. I’m back out here we’ll see how this goes. He told me about his wife and two kids. Fuck em though I’m worried about you.

Told Daddy I needed black sandals for work while he was shopping. Of course he got me Weitzman sandals. They’re plain and black so I figured I was safe and no one would be able to tell they were expensive. Wrong. Vendor walks right in. A cute young sales girl. First words out her mouth “Business must be good” they all say that so I play it off. And extra because business is not good and I don’t need my boss reminded. Followed up with, “it must be, my husband would kill me if I spent $500 on sandals”. I wanted to die. My boss knows I can’t afford that on what they pay me and I don’t want their minds pacing about how I can. I already heard them whispering about of tf I have a new Lexus. FML. The look on her face fealt like knives.

Had a POT date yesterday with a man I met on AM. He offered me $200 to have coffee $400 if we could go back to my place. He was really nice and someone I fealt I could beat up if need be. He’s 59 about 120 pounds 5'5 Warning : NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE! After walking and chatting awhile we got in my car even though the Starbucks was 5 seconds from my house I drove around awhile and stopped at the carwash and took back roads to keep him from remembering the way. Once we got there and got to fooling around I asked for my money which of course he didn’t have because he was “rushing”. Not sure why these joes insist on trying me . So we had to get dressed and go to an ATM because I put no trust in these hoes. After he gave me the money his dick stayed in marshmallow form. Easy Peasy.

Bye AF

Xoxox,

Ursula

Fimes going back packing in New Zealand without me. I’ll occupy my time learning to trade stocks. With the investment banker I met on AM last week. Make your money work as hard as you do.

Taking money from regular guys is different. This man works three jobs and told me he could probably help me with my nails and a new dress Friday when he got paid. I guess I sounded a little sad today so he figured out how to get it to me today, Tuesday. While whales and big-money are important. It’s also important to collect men like this along the way. Men who care about you and want to see you happy. Whom maybe can’t give you the world but would if they had it.

Xoxox,

Ursula

6.16.16

Thank god for a generous Splenda daddy I wrecked my car last week and had no fucking clue what I was going to do. HD makes sure I never have to worry about a thing. A true God send. My car was a POS and now I drive a Lexus. What is life….

Can you imagine? The stress. Bro I was just trying to live the easy good life. What’s a platform?

When your daddy’s kids start playing in your ask. don’t blame me blame your daddy.

Xoxox,

Ursula

My little girl loves the beach but I’ve been so busy this summer we haven’t had a few days to escape. Daddy couldn’t have that so he booked a beach front room for the two of us and told me to take a couple days off work because I don’t need the money and he’s right. It was perfect, schools back in session so we had the whole deserted resort at our beck and call not to mention a private beach. She had a great time and it was just the recharge I needed.

Xoxox,

Ursula

second date(2017)

After years of never hiking off Highway 80 in the northern part of Lake Tahoe, I finally made the trip. A few weeks ago we hiked Mount Judah on the Pacific Crest Trail. And while you are technically hiking the mountain of a ski resort, the views and the trees were gorgeous. We arrived just in time for alpine spring in July when all the wildflowers are in bloom. There were so many colors and types of wildflowers I had never seen before. And while our summer hiking has now come to an end, I look forward to a few autumn and winter hikes in the area.