#sugaring
When you don’t even have to ask….. POT date with an out of town Daddy tomorrow. Single, first time sugar daddy. Found him on tinder and proceeded to turn him out. Xoxox –Ursula
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Story time: So a long time ago before I was a sugar baby I started fucking with this old nigga that I met at work who I knew had a lot of money I thought he’d be a “SD” before I knew what a “SD” was but never got any money out of him because I fucked and started liking him and he was hanging with me and my kid. Well I was about 50 pounds heavier when I dated him. Tonight I randomly sent him photos of my new body and he was like freaking out rushed over to confirm it and everything. I wouldn’t let him in my apartment we just sat in his car and smoked a bowl. “I haven’t smoked since you left, or dated, or had any happiness Boohoo” except he treated me like complete shit! Treated me bad called me fat countless times. But now hes in awww weakened by my beauty y'all he looked like he wanted to die. And a bitch had a slight casual beat for his ass and this Peruvian hair down to my ass. He couldn’t believe I was the same girl. And he won’t believe when I take his money. Because I’m not the same girl! congratulations! you’re a contestant on drain your pockets. He’s taking me shopping on Saturday as a gift for a job well done. He was the meanest man I’ve ever dated so this will be easy. Xoxox –Ursula
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Just sharing the joy with my brown sugar sisters. As a single mom you dread getting a phone call that your kid is sick. You can’t even think about your sick kid you’re more concerned with how you’re gonna get out of work. Will there be repercussions? How will we live missing those hours, that money? It felt really good to just think about my kid sashaying out the office to spend the afternoon cuddling, changing diapers and online shopping with daddy’s card because “man that must have been rough on baby girl” you’re damn right it was :) . Knowing I could make the money I’d make in that whole day ten times over in a few hours tonight once she resting soundly in bed if I wanted to is the most comforting feeling I’ve EVER FUCKING FELT.
Xoxox –UrsulaPost link
Buy something off my wishlist to recieve customs nude pics/videos in return! Must show proof ❤️ https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3DSPMOPTQF5P9?ref_=wl_share
Where are the real sugar daddies that are looking to spoil a sweet girl
Who’s looking to spoil me for some nudes and videos in return :))
Just some SA humor for your evening lolol
Good to know I was right to not respond to this cheapass
Austin
In Austin for a week for work, so I changed my location on SA, and added a disclaimer in my bio saying the dates I’d be here if anyone wants some company, figuring I could maybe just go on some dates while I’m here, get some fancy dinners, yummy drinks, see where it goes if the vibe is right. Who knows.
Anyways, I’ve been blowin tf up and after weeding thru a bunch of nasties and lame-o’s, I’ve got some nice dinner dates lined up with 3 guys for the week:)
Also, if anyone has any freestyle recommendations for this city, plz hit me with them. Or if any girls wanna hangout while I’m down here and be sugar sisters hmu haha
Lolllllz roommate life
My roommate (who in reality is honestly suuuper sweet and considerate of others) has no idea that I am trying to dive into the bowl.
Just listened to her talk about how she can’t believe some girls are so shallow that they would be with older men solely because of money…
All I could say was: idk, not really your place to judge other people’s lives tho….?
Why I entered the bowl
My first OC post! I am going to be talking to a wall here, but that’s okay with me. I just made this tumblr account a few weeks ago when I realized that this site is a goddamn gold mine for sugar content, and how HELPFUL it all is.
Anyways, I’ve been lurking in the background, but have felt inspired to share my own story of why I started sugaring. Or I suppose “trying” to start sugaring. It’s only been about a month and a half since I’ve been actively seeking.
It all started with my last relationship, really. I fell in love organically with an older man. Divorced with two kids. He was wealthy, although I didn’t find that out until after I had already caught feels for him. He was so attractive. & Fit. Funny. Smart. P H E N O M E N A L sex. fuck, it was the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. Ugh. RIP.
It was not a sugar relationship - he wouldn’t just hand me money. But I lived a comfortable life with him. Nice outings that he would pay for, and he let me move into his big beautiful multi-million dollar mansion with him.
But not everything gold can stay. He had anger issues and was manipulative, and his ex wife somehow got all his money (don’t ask me how, i do not understand (tbh we all should be getting advice from her, she a crazy lady but damn she a rich one now)). At this point in our relationship, I was still in love with him, so we move into a small apartment together. As time goes on, he starts getting in over his head financially and can’t keep up with bills. He couldn’t understand the concept of living below your means since he’d never had to. I started covering all the bills. He started drinking more. I won’t bore you with the rest, you know how it ends.
Next thing I know it’s the first weekend of me being single after our year long relationship and the signs could not be more clear to enter the bowl:
I randomly meet these two girls from Seattle who are passing through my town on a road trip. We hit it OFF. My girls tell me all about sugaring, and I am I N T R I G U E D.
They give me a run down of it all, and I feel like this is my life path. Two strangers just drop into my life one day, and tell me about this lifestyle, two days after my breakup? Whaaaa? We go out that night, and I run into an old friend at the bar. He OUT OF THE BLUE says how he has been seriously considering getting involved with a SUGAR MAMMA. No way does this conversation happen twice in a day coincidentally, not in my life atleast. It was a sign, I took it. Here I am.
I signed up for SA, which I know people hate, and I fucking hate it too. But where I live it’s definitely the best option. I live in a tiny ass town where I can’t just go out and freestyle cuz I know everyone. At every fucking restaurant & bar. I have worked at like 5 different restaurants in this town from dive bars to fine dining, I know all the local scum & rich men & all the restaurant/bar staff around here and the freestyling just ain’t gonna happen. Mostly because I don’t want my community to actively see my golddigging. Gossip spreads like goddamn wildire here.
My town is a tiny, BUT it is a HUGE tourist attraction. One of those expensive-ass bougie mountain towns that everyone and their frickin dead grandmas come to visit to ski or climb or hike etc. Average home prices are $1.2 mil. Golf club memberships are $20,000+ PER SUMMER. It’s crawling with wealthy elites. & your girl’s trynna p o u n c e.
(Not to mention there is NO DIVERSITY here and my Asian ass is a rarity.)
Unfortunately, haven’t been having much luck. SA guys so far have been trash. Have a couple POTs at the moment, but so far all the other POTs have revealed how stingy or flakey or downright gross they are, and I do not have time for that shit. blegh. Maybe I’ll make a post another day about my experience with the search, but spoiler alert, it’s the same struggle everyone goes thru while on the hunt for a new SD.
But I am putting in my work. Chatting w people every day. Getting inspired by everything I see here on tumblr. My daddy will find me soon enough & ya girl will be thriving (well I’m always thriving, but more than I am right now..)
:)
Self-Care Routines
Sugaring, classes, work, and just life in general can get exhausting. Mental health is critical for manifesting and creating a life you love living. Join me while we go through some self care and wellness strategies:
- Affirmations
- Mindfulness activities
- How to create and incorporate a self-care routine
Pro tip: subscribe to luxury magazines for more visual vibe enhancement. My favorites are Veranada, House Beautiful, AD (Architectural Digest), and Elle Decor
Slowly cracking the code on how to sugar via Yelp
Will update in a week or so after testing it out a little more!
Just noticing that I have 1,200 followers!!
Thank you all for following my little sugar journey. Although I’ve been sugaring for years now, I’ve only had this blog for 8, maybe 9 months, and I am so happy I found this community.
Overall, I have much more to do, accomplish, and, of course, share. This year will really be focused on building my already growing savings account, investing in property, and doing as much research and preparation as humanly possible to successfully transition from SB to escort.
I have hundreds of other goals that I will also be sharing here, and there, but these three are on my mind daily. Again, thank you for following and I so look forward to what 2019 will bring to me, and all of you!
Xoxo
Just finished my POT date
We met near Larchmont, he talked a mile a minute, I probably said a total of 9 sentences the whole dinner lol. He started to come off as a little “Braggy” but luckily it didn’t annoy me that much. I definitely see him being a very good mentor, especially when it comes to real estate (which is my 2019/2020 project). The night ended with me saying I’m going to call an Uber home, and him say “Here, I don’t want you to have to pay to come see me” & handing me a little stack of money…….literally music to my fucking ears. Like men don’t have an option, BUT I love not having to even ask.
All in all, he seems promising.
Xoxo
Happy New Year Heauxs
How I started my year off, how about you? Let’s all prosper and thrive to be the best, healthiest, happiest, richest versions of ourselves we can be.
2018, you were good to me, but 2019 is going to be better!
Xoxo,
Cocosugxr
My Vanilla Job
I love my Vanilla Job mostly because:
It has given me extra mulaaa, on top of my sugar income.
I work at my dream school, which is where I plan to transfer to after I get my associates. This job will definitely help me get into the school.
Lastly, with this extra income, it has pushed me to a point where I never even get close to compromising with these Salts, b/c I’m really financially stable. Yes, I’m always looking to make more money, but I’m not in a place where I’ll get out of my comfy bed, for less than what I want.
I felt this way before the job, but now I’m just 100% comfortable, I can’t wait to share what’s coming in the future!
Happy sugaring ❤️xoxo
Me and Jersey broke up
Don’t really want to go into detail, but I will say this:
I will never ever wait on a man, nor will I ever be a second choice.
Anywhooo lol, I’m currently in San Francisco with one of my old SDs. He flew me out last night and I’m leaving Sunday. I’ll make another post with more updates later, we are on our way to Napa to do some wine tasting au revoir!! ✌
Had another amazing date with my SDBF aka Jersey. This man is so sweet, after about 5 really nice dates I finally decided we should do the do, and it was actually amazing. I feel like that was the perfect time frame to be intimate in this specific situation. Not so soon that he doesn’t respect me and not to long that he loses interest, plus he wants more so I have more to leverage.
Overall great date, and I can’t wait for him to take me to Greece later this year!!!
Recipe link: How NOT to treat a client during a brazilian wax: Here’s the same batch of wax I made on an earlier video being used to wax with. This video has good clear close up shots of hair removal. I LOVE this stuff - especially after trying it on my bikini line and EVERY hair removed where
Read more at https://twitter.com/Gethealthguide/status/752596725320134656
Recipe link: How NOT to treat a client during a brazilian wax: Here’s the same batch of wax I made on an earlier video being used to wax with. This video has good clear close up shots of hair removal. I LOVE this stuff - especially after trying it on my bikini line and EVERY hair removed where
Read more at http://www.stumbleupon.com/to/s/2J957q
Recipe link: How NOT to treat a client during a brazilian wax: Here’s the same batch of wax I made on an earlier video being used to wax with. This video has good clear close up shots of hair removal. I LOVE this stuff - especially after trying it on my bikini line and EVERY hair removed where
Read more at http://www.facebook.com/307656439418128/posts/553093961541040
“ don’t you eventually want to stop sugaring and find the one?”
The worst is when you can kinda feel your sugar daddy falling in love. Last time I checked I don’t have an account on eharmony. I’m the girl you occasionally spoil I’m not your girl. Run that check tho
I feel so bad for my friends because they actually try to get real genuine love from men….bitch get a puppy
Hello my loves, I’m moving back to Los Angeles. Is it time to start a new blog or keep on going with this one?
