#therapy
My therapist knows i like metaphors and she got me with this one.
“You’ve got two cups to take care of to be healthy. One is for your energy the other is for your tolerance. You empty the energy cup by doing stuff–errands, worrying about things, day to day life. The tolerance cup fills up on its own, everything that bothers you or hurts or makes stuff difficult. You have to take time, ON PURPOSE, to fill the first and empty the second. You have to do this as often as you can, especially when things get rough. Even a few drops makes a difference between hanging on and running out, or running over.”
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I saw this post from one of my favorite artists. It reminded me that, even as a therapist, my role is not to “fix” someone or alter their emotions. I can simply sit and offer support.
What she said
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What makes you seek art therapy?
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Dont stretch yourself too thin
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When you’re anxiety is doing the thing and you just want off the f*$king swing…
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End the Stigma
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Be like the llama and avoid all the drama
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Frail:
Adj: (of a person)weak and delicate Easily damaged, fragile.
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Looking at the prompt for @inktober day 8, frail, I’m reminded how I used to equate frail to introverted. It’s often seen as a negative to be less talkative or “shy”. Over the years as a therapist, I’ve learned being introverted does not equate to being frail. Introverted is (for myself) more in line with being empathetic and an attentive listener while still being able to advocate for myself and clients.
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[Tweet by Fran, @galacticidiots, saying, ‘Who needs therapy when AO3 is full of those 10-20K one shots where nothing happens except huge feelings and deep conversations that somehow make you feel the entire spectrum of human emotion.
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I prefer both, of course. But there are many things that I’d never even considered COULD be related before reading about them on AO3, never mind connecting them to my own experiences.
I still go read hurt/comfort to figure out which trauma I’m currently ready to process. I read about stupid Batkids getting lost in their own undercover identities while trying to figure myself out. I read about abuse while trying to parse my self-hatred. I read about good parents and siblings while isolating myself. I read about trauma recovery … while I continue to recover from trauma.
hey all, so as it turns out, my job is scheduling me way less for the next few weeks, just as I started therapy :’)))
and for my insurance to cover any of my therapy, I need to pay a deductible I can’t really afford rn, so I’d like to finally ask for those reparations :’DPaypal