Saying that transgender men can identify as lesbians but cis men cannot reinforces the idea that trans men aren’t really men. That they’re some sort of subcategory of a man and that they’ll never be man enough. It’s just fucking transphobic. They’re men. Straight men. Not lesbians.
I’m a lesbian trans man and you can never take my identity away from me
Oh cool so you’re lesbophobic and transphobic alright.
Ugh no. I’m diagnosed as trans and I’m biologically female . I’m attracted to women.
You’re singlehandedly giving me depression.
Not everyone has to obey the label police. It’s transphobic to be telling me, a transman what identify as.
It’s transphobic and lesbophobic to claim you can be a man and a lesbian at the same time.
It’s actually TERF rhetoric to claim that transmen can be lesbians.
I mean they seem to be a TERF who doesn’t understand dysphoria at all
Saying that transgender men can identify as lesbians but cis men cannot reinforces the idea that trans men aren’t really men. That they’re some sort of subcategory of a man and that they’ll never be man enough. It’s just fucking transphobic. They’re men. Straight men. Not lesbians.
Can y’all stop forcing celebrities to have to say that they’re actually not non-binary and instead they’re just gnc.
Whenever a celebrity is gnc, instead of initially celebrating it, people are like ‘this celebrities comes out as non-binary? This celebrity is now trans?’
And then they have to explain that they don’t see clothing as guys clothing or girls clothing and they just want to wear whatever they want
And THEN people celebrate it, even though some people online think they just haven’t realized they’re trans yet.
With how minuscule the probability of someone being trans is, can people just appreciate the initial thought that a celebrity is breaking free of gender norms therefore helping younger kids realize they can be gnc too.
Let gnc people EXIST
Y'know, there’s actually quite a few sex researchers now who believe that the number of trans individuals is actually a lot lower than the current number. What they believe is that individuals are actually gnc, get depression when they aren’t accepted as a boy or a girl, and then develop body dysmorphia as a symptom of their depression. Which actually makes a lot of sense because some brain scans of trans individuals look like “this is the other gender’s brain,” but some brain scans look like “this is just a regular person with depression.”
I’m not saying that all transgender people are just gnc with bad experiences, but according to the research, a lot are. And this may be why the trans community has such high suicide rates. So instead of insisting that people are trans or bi when they do something that isn’t stereotypical of their gender (whether it’s wearing clothes, having a hobby, behaving Butch/effeminately) like people on this site are wont to do, you should just accept people like! they! are!
You’re not gonna like it when you find out about how the LGBT community treats cross dressers. People are actively witch hunting them, telling them they’re just in the closet because wearing a dress for fun totally means that you have to be a girl right??? It’s not like cross dressing is a performance similar to drag or cosplaying where people get dressed up and put on a different persona…
On another note, can we please stop with the “If you have to question if you’re trans, then you absolutely are trans, sweaty!!!” bullshit? Questioning our identity is how we solidify it and grow more comfortable with it. Pestering people that the slightest bit of doubt about their gender identity is undoubtedly evidence that they are trans, is just furthering their misery. You are not “saving” people, you are actively contributing to the raising numbers of detransitioner and suicide cases.
Cross dressing, drag, and gender non conformity, while it may have some ties, is not lgbt. People who identity with or participate in those things mentioned may be lgbt, but doing those things doesn’t make them lgbt.
So if a cis/het person wants to participate? Let them. They’re allowed. It’s not rude or ignorant or appropriation. They’re not hurting anyone by having fun like the rest of the people there. Stop forcing them to think they’re something they’re not.
that’s terf rhetoric fam sorry :/ saying that a lot of trans people are just gnc ppl being pressured into being trans :// is like PEAK terf rhetoric :/ you’re a terf now :/ sorry :/
If you take a quick peak at my blog you’d see I absolutely despise TERFs.
Nothing wrong with being confused and thinking you’re trans, happens to plenty of people and hey gender identity can be weird and difficult.
It’s toxic to pressure GNC/crossing dressers to identify as trans. I’m not saying most trans people are that case, but there are handfuls of people who are simply just a non conforming cis person. That’s okay. Nothing wrong with it at all.
This post is bad, ur bad, and anyone who uncritically reblogged this is bad. Seriously. Stop fucking shaming people for their pronouns and genders wtf???? Gross
You just defended space alien as a legitimate gender, good job.
Do you fucking transtrenders have any idea how difficult you’re making it for legitimate trans people to be taken seriously? Do you even fucking understand what a gender is? A gender isn’t a fucking aesthetic. It’s not a feeling, an animal, a colour, a fashion, or any other sparkly snowflake bullshit. A gender is literally the way your brain is biologically wired. There are millions of people who suffer and face dangerous discrimination because their genders don’t match their bodies, and you tweenyboppers are making it into a fucking trend that you can wear like a brooch or a scarf? Fuck you.
I love trolling TERFs and watching them fall for it. Y’all asked for it by interacting and here we are. Cry about it LMAOO. Merry Christmas to me this is amazing.
legimate autistic trans person: this mogai shit, especially neurogenders and your “autigender”, harms us
some cis kid: lmao mean gatekeeper
Me, neurodivergent and nonbinary: neopronouns arent necessary and saying that people like me “need” them to “properly express” our gender makes us out to be dumb toddlers.
Some cisgender neurotypical: you’re ableist >:((((
