me, without fail, every time i see a drawing of two girls with blonde and black/brown hair: omg it’s us!!! darling look it’s literally us!! ussss i can’t believe they actually drew us irl that’s crazy look love it’s us<3333
my s/o, absolutely done with my bullshit: yes, yes it’s us
okay but what if we went to goodwill on a rainy day and bought old prom dresses then went out and got all muddy and danced in the rain pretending we were in a coming of age movie
how do you casually tell someone “i want nothing more than to hold you in my arms and make sure you know that nothing can hurt you as long as i’m here” without being weird
i just want them to know that i don’t answer the phone after midnight for anyone. but i wouldn’t hesitate to facetime them until sunrise just to hear their voice and see their smile.
I don’t get to speak For femme, but only what I personally know of femme from the connections I have in my life. It’s got nothing to do with “femininity” and everything to do with femininity at the same time. In the same way Butch takes the man’s weapon and turns it into a shield, femmes totally rebirth femininity. Something used to confine by one segment of society is used to liberate another. And there’s no single aesthetic quality which ties it together. Every femme I know is different - the hyperfeminine fairy, the punk-goth-alternative crushing a crucifix under her boot heel, the tomboy who wields a rapier, the drawn-on hair made real and earrings that scream love, the dripping in class whilst rocking a mullet. Femme goes beyond femininity to reinvent it.
And each one is golden-hearted, community-minded, thoughtful and invested and always reaching out to hold someone’s hand; for the other’s sake or for their own. It’s powerful, protective, never passive. Femme doesn’t dream of running away to a cottage in the woods, divorcing itself of responsibility, living an isolated fantasy. I see those hands and the seeds they plant and that they’d rather do it in a garden everyone can access. To hell with it if they get dirt under their fingernails.
Why is there no Tessa Thompson fanfic? All us queer girls want her to fall in love with us and top the fuck out of us. I’m taking AUs, OCs, fem!reader love interest, fluff, smut, and angst.
I was fortunate to be apart of @sammyborras’ amazing Janelle Monáe/Dirty Computer fanzine with my op-ed discussing how she has impact my life. Janelle has shaped, changed, and SAVED my life with her artistry since 2010. She makes me feel seen, loved, and valued. There is power in art. I present…
oh to spend the rest of my days with my girlfriend in a house full of animals and kids but still never lose touch of who we are and why we are together.
happy trans day of visibility to all my trans brothers, sisters, and other siblings. (and my girlfriend) hope you all have a good day today and all other days, just remember youre loved by many, myself included. feel free to dm me if you need someone to talk to ♡
