There is an ongoing issue in my life which a friend continues to bring into my daily life. I have gi
There is an ongoing issue in my life which a friend continues to bring into my daily life. I have given clear boundaries and explanations, but they are continuously ignored. The explanations part is unusual for me because I tend to be a because I said so person and don’t usually feel compelled to explain myself so I feel giving one demonstrates regard for this person, their feelings, and I feel continually disrespected by the unending discussion of an issue with which I was clear I was finished. I asked, “Why does this person continue to involve me in their issue?” I drew what should be a celebratory Three of Cups. I rarely read reversals but in this case the card is definitely in detriment. Person A sees me as part of a threesome in this situation, and has a vision of an unhealthy competition that involves me. I try to escape because I don’t wish to share energy or space with the participants but my friend enjoys the idea of a threesome in which they are the fulcrum and the balancing force. My friend sees three people- their self, me and the third person, as a grouping and is addicted to the thrill of the created drama. I wish to be left out of it and am losing patience with it. An ill dignified Three of Cups indicates drama, addiction, jealousy, and unhealthy competition to me. My words, my feelings and my boundaries are being ignored and as much as I have true and deep love for my friend I am finding myself not wanting to interact because of the ignoring of my boundaries.