Spoken words are among the most powerful tools of arousal.Tell him exactly what you plan to do to hi

Spoken words are among the most powerful tools of arousal.

Tell him exactly what you plan to do to him, before you do it.

Say it matter-of-factly, with a confident smile on your face.  Make it clear through your tone and delivery that he has no choice in the matter.  But, of course, always leave the ending in doubt…