“a lot of vnjn shippers seem to think that everyone hates their ship when… honestly, it

“a lot of vnjn shippers seem to think that everyone hates their ship when… honestly, it’s one of the most popular ships in the fandom? i myself don’t really like it, and think it has writing issues (but that depends on where mochijun takes it from here), but like. i mainly ship domijeanne, i don’t even rlly ship vannoe, and i can hardly find content of them?? but vanijeanne content is everywhere. like yeah not everyone likes your ship. and yeah they shouldn’t tag hate as said ship bc that is disrespectful, but don’t act like your ship is so “oppressed” when it’s not. and yeah biphobia hard sucks. but don’t try to write off all hate of your ship as biphobia when it’s not?? (btw wanna clarify this isn’t a reply to any specific confession, just stating things i’ve seen before). like i could claim that so many people being indifferent or not shipping domijeanne is lesbophobia, and sometimes it is! but i’m not gonna make wide sweeping statements abt it, because not everyone is gonna like it. even though i know for a fact that if they were both dudes, they would he more popular, i can’t really control that!! so instead of focusing on people who hate your ship just… focus on the fact that you’re lucky enough to get regular content? please.“