atreefullofstars: doubletwoseven: wynterroseskye: byzantium-glytch: THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And for

atreefullofstars:

doubletwoseven:

wynterroseskye:

byzantium-glytch:

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And for the boys, no not wanting it doesn’t make you gay, less of a man, or anything to that effect, you’re allowed to say no too, and when she says “am I just not hot enoughy for you” that is an attempt to guilt you into sex.

Reblogging for IMPORTANT addition.

You are allowed to only sleep with people you like & WHEN you want to. Don’t let anyone else tell you different, ever.

You’re allowed to stop “in the middle.” You’re allowed to say yes to some things and not others. You’re allowed to try things and decide you don’t like them and not do them again. You’re allowed to NOT try something even once, even if your partner is sure you’d like it if you just tried. You’re allowed to date without having sex, for as long as you and your partner want. You’re allowed to not date. You’re allowed to tell someone when they’re doing something you don’t like, aren’t comfortable with, don’t feel ready for, or just don’t want right now. You’re allowed to say “I SAID NO, STOP ASKING.” You’re allowed to ask for things you DO want. You’re allowed to do all of this differently at different times with different people.

Sex and everything sex-adjacent is personal, individual, and optional. Be honest and maintain your boundaries.