Uchouten Kazoku / The Eccentric Family - One of my favourites!
Basically tanuki (and youkai in general) take on the shape of humans and don’t have as strict gender roles as humans so they just tend to present as whatever pleases them. The protagonist tanuki (in the gif)‘s mother (I say that as she ids as a woman from what I understand) also tends to present as male most of the time, and it’s seen as completely normal. Also, one of the tanuki lives full time as a frog (because it’s been so long he can’t transform back, but it’s okay) because that’s what he’s comfortable with.
The second season is coming out in a week’s time iirc. It’s a really heartwarming show, and I fully recommend it.
