mistertorn: Just made this in response to yet another person asking me for advice “getting th

mistertorn:

Just made this in response to yet another person asking me for advice “getting their boyfriend to be more dominant”. NEWSFLASH: If it doesn’t really turn him on, it’s not going to magically start - and if you’re instructing him exactly what to do it’s gonna kinda take the fun out of, y’know, submitting.

Exceptions to this do exist, but it’s extremely unlikely you’re one of them.

Reblog if you know where I’m coming from!

Sounds reasonable. But there’s no real harm in trying kinky activities once or twice and see how it turns out. Being “kinky” (without being entirely aware of it) isn’t THAT rare.

Aria discovered her inclination because we dared to experiment. And just look what happened… *smiles*