I love rituals.  Sometimes they are created, sometimes they happen.  My girl knows how imp

I love rituals.  Sometimes they are created, sometimes they happen.  My girl knows how important they are to me.  They have also become important to her.

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fringeofdarkness:

On Ritual.

Many in this lifestyle scoff at ritual as being melodramatic and/or shallow.  While  I personally feel some practices can stilt the natural flow of a bond between Dominant and submissive, I am a firm believer in ritual as a way to center a girl, focus her, and enhance an experience.  

I look at it pragmatically.  I love strong submissives, girls who are intelligent, talented, and educated.  Unfortunately, with the pressures and stresses of the world, a girl can have a lot to jettison before she feels freed to her Dominant and the time they have together.

Enter ritual.  By requiring my girl to strip and present herself, I can immediately strip away the stresses of her day, the challenges she faces, and bring her to a solitary focus - serving me.  A whisper in her ear, an inspection of her smooth pussy, and the fixing of her collar - performed with consistency over time - can further release her to her place under me.

All thoughts on ritual aside, let’s not forget the sheer aesthetics of a beautiful submissive kneeling before me.  Not because she is forced to kneel - but because she hungers to serve me.  Ritual helps drive me in this manner - as I am inspired by her beauty and simplicity, and I find myself craving her even more.

I sometimes feel I am the luckiest man in the world in this dance on the fringe…

Truth…