dearmyclosestfriend: You are still a valid little if you: Dislike using pacifiers Dislike coloring D

dearmyclosestfriend:

You are still a valid little if you:

• Dislike using pacifiers
• Dislike coloring
• Dislike glitter and sparkles
• Dislike little snacks
• Dislike Disney or Pixar movies
• Don’t always like being babied
• Don’t wear diapers/pull ups
• Don’t baby talk
• Don’t like being talked to like a baby
• Don’t like pink
• Don’t regress by yourself
• Don’t like playing with toys or stuffies
• Don’t enjoy cartoons
• Don’t have any little gear
• Don’t own a single stuffie
• Are transgender
• Are LGBTQ+
• Are a male little
• Are a tall little
• Are disabled
• Are a “little person”
• Are antisocial
• Are under 18+
• Are an independent little
• Aren’t “tiny”
• Aren’t always happy
• Aren’t bubbly and giddy all the time
• Aren’t always perfect (no one is)
• Have scars
• Have tattoos or piercings
• Have a mental illness
• Have autism
• No one one about your regression
• Still live with your parents
• Your friends don’t approve
• Your family doesn’t approve
• Your significant other/partner isn’t part of the community
• Your significant other/partner doesn’t know about your regression
• People judge you
• You regress to more than one age
• You regress to an older age (middle little)
• You regress to an animal or pet, as well as a younger age group
• You have anxiety
• You are vegan
• You are vegetarian
• You smoke
• You’re in recovery
• You live in a hospital/rehabilitation center
• You have to use prescribed medical marijuana
• You don’t know what you want to do with your life
• You just went through a bad breakup
• You don’t have a mommy, daddy, CG, or Babysitter
• You wake up with hate in your ask box
• You don’t have a lot of money
• You can’t afford little gear
• You have children
• You’re divorced
• You’re in the Marines, Army, Air Force, Navy, etc.
• You’re in physical therapy
• You don’t have time to regress
• You listen to metal/rock
• You don’t like animals
• You’re a hypochondriac
• You’re pregnant
• You have body dysmorphia
• You’re bulimic
• You’re anorexic
• You’re chubby
• You’re a bodybuilder
• You any color, shape, or size that the media deems “ugly”
• You’re going through chemo
• You’re in college/university
• You just now found out about the community
• You don’t have any little friends
• You don’t know your little space or interests yet
• You’re married
• You’re still learning
• You’re a full time student
• You’re on a budget
• You’re depressed
• You’re an only child
• You have daddy issues (it’s okay to be a little for this reason)
• You have mommy issues (also a perfectly okay reason)
• You’re an orphan
• You’re a victim of abuse
• You’re an activist
• You’re a “tree hugger”
• You’re a very professional person
• You have a busy career
• You’re lactose intolerant
• You have bad allergies
• You’re allergic to dogs, cats, or other cute furry creatures
• You eat a plant based
• You don’t have a flat stomach
• You aren’t pale and frail (this is perfectly okay, but not required)
• You’re a tough cookie
• You can handle your own problems
• You’re bossy
• You’re a switch
• You like being coddled
• You feel like you’re being annoying or inconvenient (you aren’t)
• You prefer to handle your own problems
• You don’t like surprises or gifts
• You don’t like being spoiled
• You don’t like onesies
• You’re claustrophobic
• You don’t like dressing feminine or cutesie
• You don’t like your hair being played with or touched
• You’re a badass
• You curse a lot
• You refuse to curse at all
• You don’t have a sweet tooth
• You’re athletic
• You don’t enjoy music
• You’re happier on your own
• You regress for therapy
• You’re part of other communities
• You’re more into the kink side of things
• You’re an older adult
• You had a bad childhood
• You regress to cope
• You regress simply because it makes you happy
• You have curly hair that can’t be played with
• You have thick thighs
• You don’t like knee high or thigh high socks
• You don’t like lacy, frilly, girly things
• You don’t name your stuffies
• You hate cuddles
• You practice martial arts
• You’re a recovering alcoholic
• You’re a former addict
• You hate shopping
• You don’t like the term “cummies” (girl, me neither)
• You aren’t afraid to stand up for yourself
• You aren’t a defenseless, helpless being
• You don’t know how to stand up for yourself
• You’re bad at arts & crafts (or just don’t enjoy it)
• You’re very blessed and have a lot more gear than most people
• You’re fearless
• You rarely ever regress
• You have a disability or disorder
• You’re OCD
• You’re a picky eater
• You can’t sleep with the lights off
• You’re clingy
• You’re the opposite of clingy
• You don’t like little shows
• You prefer gifts over physical affection (not gold diggers)
• You prefer physical affection over any material gifts
• You’re kinda slutty sometimes
• You’re extra virgin olive oil
• You don’t have any pets
• You have alllll the pets
• You’re very ambitious (hey, my people)
• You’re afraid to grow up
• You don’t regress in a headspace, but enjoy everything littles do
• You’re a little in denial
• You’re afraid to accept your little side, for whatever reason
• You haven’t come out to anyone about it (you don’t have to)
• You’re a very private person
• You want everyone to know every detail of your life
• You’re a a publicly open little
• You’re not afraid of what anyone else things
• You embrace your little space
• You don’t call your bf/gf daddy or mommy
• You only relate to a few things that littles commonly do or enjoy
• You’ve never actually regressed before, you just know you’re little
• You’re scared to fully regress in front of your partner
• You’re scared to introduce your little space to your loved ones
• You don’t define yourself in any community
• You refer to yourself as an age regressor, not a little
• You’re a very hygienic person
• You’re a neat freak
• You’re an old soul
• You’re a germaphobe
• You’re not from America
• Regression is unheard of in your rural area
• You’re a very intelligent person
• You’re not so smart, and learning is difficult for you
• You’re dyslexic
• You don’t like flowers or floral things
• You’re very masculine
• You have to take medication
• You’re an insomniac
• You have lyme’s disease
• You have special needs
• You have to care for your siblings, parents, or disabled loved ones
• You rarely have time for yourself
• You have a very busy life
• You’re not good at communicating your feelings
• You become non verbal during little space
• You can’t shush during little space
• You’re a brat (ayyyyyy)
• You’re super sassy (ayyyyyy x2)
• You’re a “typical little”
• You’re an oddball
• You’re awkward
• You’re passionate
• You come with “baggage”
• You’d rather care for yourself in little space
• You enjoy uncommon things
• You enjoy diapers/pull ups
• You sometimes wet the bed
• You hate having rules
• You LOVE rules
• You don’t enjoying actually using a diaper or pull up, but do enjoy wearing diapers and pull ups
• You regress to a baby
• You’re single
• You’re asexual
• You aren’t sexual when little or big
• You’re usually little
• You’re usually big
• You’re pretty immature
• You’re extremely mature
• You sometimes feel dumb for being a little

You are valid because this is what you enjoy. This is who you are. No one can change that or take it away from you. Littles aren’t littles by choice; this is something that has always and will always be a part of us, in our hearts, even before we knew how to label it. Even if you try to deny your little space because of what other people may think, or try to turn away from it.. Even if you don’t regress for 10+ years.. Don’t give up. You’re still a little at heart. You’re still valid. You’re still loved. I am always here for anyone who needs me, I’m just a message away. Don’t be afraid to talk to me, I’d love to hear from you! Any time, any day, any hour. I’m here for you. You are NOT alone. God bless you, my beautiful regression babies.