smartsurrender: Yes, please. “After” play time. Automobile sex (in, not with). Bare-back

smartsurrender:

Yes, please.

“After” play time.

Automobile sex (in, not with).

Bare-back (only with committed partner).

Begging.

Behavior modification.

Blindfold.

Belts.

Biting.

Breast play and fondling.

Collars (play; I would like one for public, eventually).

Consensual non-consent.

Corseting.

Costume play.

Cuddlefuck.

Emotional dominance.

Forced clothing removal.

Domestic service.

Fellatio.

Flogging.

Forced masturbation.

Forced nudity (only with committed partner).

Forced touching from my partner.

Hair-pulling.

Hand jobs.

High heels.

Humiliation (gentle, private).

Leash (private).

Leather binding.

Lingerie.

Masturbation.

Nipple arousal.

No foreplay (especially in the morning when the wood is good).

Orgasm control.

Outdoor sex.

Phone sex…(I think).  Hasn’t happened but let’s put it on The List anyway.

Professor/teacher/mentor.

Rewards.

Slow undressing.

Spanking.

Suit/uniform.

Tasks & Assignments.

Teasing.

Ties/tied up.

Vaginal penetration.

Vibrator wands (Hitachi).  (A moment of silence here, please…)

Writing (assignments from committed partner).

Yes.

If you asked me a year ago, “What are you into?” I would have tossed a sarcastic reply in your lap and turned on my heel.

“None of your business.”
 
In truth, I had no answer.
Because, a year ago, I did not know.

Not one iota.

In less than one year, I have changed - for the better?  Probably.  Sure, for the better.  Why not?

I am stronger, wiser, and oh-so-happy in the un-earthed sexual home of my Self - which is where I belonged the whole time.

… it just took me a little longer to realize I was hiding in the cold dark of someone else’s conventional poo-poo’ing.  I am not tabu, nor is what turns me on.  Period.

I am only just ignited.
Watch me burn.

-SmartSurrender

Yeah, I wrote this.