If you took away my family, Koyomi Onii-chan and Tsukihi-chan, [Kaiki] would be the one who’d

If you took away my family, Koyomi Onii-chan and Tsukihi-chan, [Kaiki] would be the one who’d made the biggest impression in my life — it was because of him that Nadeko’s life began to come apart, after all.

He unhinged my life. It fell apart.

……

Oh, is it words like these that make me sound like a victim?

I really shouldn’t, let me try again.

Only the things around Nadeko came apart.

All the unhinging, and the falling apart,

it was all in the surrounding, not in Nadeko.

- from Otorimonogatari “Nadeko Medusa”, translated by CanonraponQuality Mistranslations.
(Emphasis mine).