Over time, the Daddy & babygirl dynamic can be almost hypnotic, an ingrained Pavlovian condi

Over time, the Daddy & babygirl dynamic can be almost hypnotic, an ingrained Pavlovian conditioning that renders one or both parties almost instinctively slipping into the roles that they enjoy together. Someone close to me called it being ‘little’, a frame of mind that she would slip into whenever the right attitude was applied towards her. It was something incredibly vulnerable, but at the same time, in the right hands, incredibly safe. More than most other D/s I’ve engaged in, having that in the palm of my hand was a moment that was simultaneously highly privileged and extremely intoxicating. 

The thing is, over time, these demeanours and attitudes become easier to slip into, and can be sustained for far longer. I suppose there’s a worry that, over time, they might start to become the primary for that person. I’m speculating, but it feels logical. 

Would that be such a bad thing? There’s the threat that, should the relationship end for any reason, you’d be left with this huge part of you that’s not fit for the outside world. There’s the worry that it might become too familiar for the Dominant to control, and he could unwittingly abuse it once the realisation of quite how vulnerable you are like that slips from his mind.

On the other hand, it feels like, with the right people, it could be one of the most rewarding relationships possible between two people. You’ve just got to figure out whether it’s worth that risk.