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linhiko: FAVORITE BOOKS ✿ Persuasion by Jane AustenThey had no conversation together, no intercourselinhiko: FAVORITE BOOKS ✿ Persuasion by Jane AustenThey had no conversation together, no intercourse

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FAVORITE BOOKS✿ Persuasion by Jane Austen

They had no conversation together, no intercourse but what the commonest civility required. Once so much to each other! Now nothing! There had been a time, when of all the large party now filling the drawing-room at Uppercross, they would have found it most difficult to cease to speak to one another…there could have been no two hearts so open, no tastes so similar, no feelings so in unison, no countenances so beloved. Now they were as strangers; nay, worse than strangers, for they could never become acquainted. It was a perpetual estrangement.


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We Always Lose When We Lose Our Tempers

Something happened. You got pissed. Now two bad things have happened. That’s just a fact.

Because getting angry rarely makes things better—even if it helps you get what you thought you wanted. It taxes your heart. It causes you to be mean to other people. To “win” you had to lose your self-control.

This is not to say you should merely accept everything in life. The Stoics were not passive weaklings. It’s that they preferred persuasion, patience, and persistence to yelling. They focused on addressing root causes, not catharsis.

How much worse getting mad is than the things that caused it, Seneca said. “Anger always outlasts hurt,” he advised. “Best to take the opposite course. Would anyone think it normal to return a kick to a mule or a bite to a dog?”

So if you want to win—at life, at philosophy, at accomplishing what you have set out to accomplish—you’ll need to rein in your temper. You’ll need to figure out the opposite course, develop more than one kind of response to things you don’t like. It’s easy to get angry, but it’s more effective to remain calm and come up with solutions.

Tame your temper. Don’t make problems worse by getting angry.

- Daily Stoic

dregslesbian: i can listen no longer in silence. i must speak to you by such means as are within my dregslesbian: i can listen no longer in silence. i must speak to you by such means as are within my dregslesbian: i can listen no longer in silence. i must speak to you by such means as are within my dregslesbian: i can listen no longer in silence. i must speak to you by such means as are within my

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i can listen no longer in silence. i must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. you pierce my soul. i am half agony, half hope. tell me not that i am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. i offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago. dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. i have loved none but you. persuasion by jane austen.


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I know I already posted the results, but I couldn’t resist making a little bar graph. It looks like

I know I already posted the results, but I couldn’t resist making a little bar graph. It looks like the men we consider the worst are Mr. Willoughby and John Thorpe.


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Part III: I asked the question Monday and here are everyone’s answers (with my two cents thrown in).

Part III: I asked the question Monday and here are everyone’s answers (with my two cents thrown in). Agree or disagree?


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Part II! I asked the question Monday and here are everyone’s answers (with my two cents thrown in).

Part II! I asked the question Monday and here are everyone’s answers (with my two cents thrown in). Agree or disagree?


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