amaridesu: @dprvdmstrTW: rapeSo, here’s the thing. Even if you did respond to the main blog of

amaridesu:

@dprvdmstr

TW: rape

So, here’s the thing. Even if you did respond to the main blog of a side blog about kink by accident, you were still so far in the wrong it’s gross as fuck. You aren’t entitled any politeness when someone who was raped gets mad and yells at you about your bad timing. If you asked someone who was just raped on a date and describe their anger at you as “unattractive” instead of absolutely understandable, you’re trash.

Especially considering that empathy, a big thing for any dom to have, would have informed you that while you didn’t initially mean harm you still should have looked into if they were interested and, more importantly, realized why you come off as gross in the first place. You could’ve easily brought the whole situation to a close by apologizing and recognizing to them that you had no clue that you messaged them in such poor timing. 

The extra grossness happens when you tell a fucking RAPE VICTIM that their attitude and anger from the shit they went through is somehow a “turn off” Oh, soooo sorry that being raped makes someone sexually unattractive lmao. Classy

In what universe do you think telling anyone who was raped that their anger at you, however misunderstood the situation was, was a turn off?? Anyone could see why she was grossed out from the timing of your message and instead of just shutting up and backing off with condolences, you try to explain how rape victims clearly shouldn’t be mad or angry at gross sounding situations and call them a turn off for being understandably on edge to the appearance of a predator harassing them and POST IT. Exposing her while she was vulnerable and literally calling it a turn off. It’s so insane that this is what you consider “tumblr drama” but also sadly unsurprising