it costs nothing to open your  fist back into a useful hand.. if you  are carrying a heavy

it costs nothing to open your  fist back into a useful hand.. if you  are carrying a heavy suitcase, and are tired of its downward pull, the easiest thing to do is put it down. unclench your fingers one by one. anger and retribution are just like that heavy suitcase. don’t look for someone else to take up your burden. just put it down yourself. if you do so and leave it be, anger evaporates unattended.