I do not like telling anyone that they are being unkind! And I’m sure this won’t

I do not like telling anyone that they are being unkind! And I’m sure this won’t be a pleasant thing to read. But even if your friend WERE overplaying their suffering–which is not a nice thing at all to assume about someone you care about!–would it be your place to correct them? You’re their friend, not their therapist! I believe you can be a better friend than this!