After being abused by a boyfriend I learned that getting closure from someone isn’t always an

After being abused by a boyfriend I learned that getting closure from someone isn’t always an option. It simply wasn’t safe for me to reach out to him to ask him the questions I wanted answers to for my peace of mind. I didn’t think I could move on without a sense of understanding, but as life went on eventually acceptance replaced confusion and I began to draw closer to peace.

I’ve lived through enough now to know that I won’t always get the answers when I want them, but I find that they’re usually waiting for me somewhere in the future. Going with the flow of life and not ruminating on other people’s motives has shown me that I can experience joy, peace and healing without receiving all the answers. The keys to my wellbeing are in nobody’s hands but my own.