This is called abuse, fam. Such a fantastic kink you’ve got going there.
There’s a difference between simply partaking in ‘Kinky’ activities and then borderline abuse…
Lol guys chill. I consented to all of this and loved every second of it.
Remember that kink doesn’t stop for everyone else at the level you personally think is too much.
We promote nothing but safe play on our blog if you took the time to actually research who’s content you was reblogging.
Get the fuck out of here labelling our safe and fully consensual play as abuse.
I remember when I got a bunch of kinkshamers coming at me for my consensual misogyny/misogyny kink. I understand why they did it. Looking back some of the shit I wrote was pretty awful. What they wrote to me was worse. Because my writing was play. They were genuinely condescending and actually wanted harm to befall me, or, more commonly, my partners.
BUT I only understand labeling people’s consensual play as abuse if you don’t bother take a moment to think of the person you’re reblogging as an actual person and not a way to make a point about how terrible those awful kinksters are. People play harder or differently from you and that doesn’t make their play abuse. Surprisingly, people can like different things.
Before declaring how abusive something kinky is, remember that there are actual people involved and take a fucking minute to look at their blog.
