Stripping away insecurities is a joy. The first time you have a girl naked, the parts that she cover

Stripping away insecurities is a joy. The first time you have a girl naked, the parts that she covers with her hands, each little linger she makes while undressing, where they take place, and how long, tell you all you need to about what she’s nervous about. 

The joy, then, is in paying those places special attention. Covering them in kisses, caressing them with a rough hand. Immersion therapy, disguised as foreplay.

You’re not going to strip away years of anxiety in an evening, but you can get started.