Full Confession: I don’t know whether I should select female on PoF, and then explain

Full Confession: I don’t know whether I should select female on PoF, and then explain that I’m trans* in my bio, or if I should just wait until the first date, or the first kiss, or sex, or what…. It’s hard to be a trans* lesbian

Yes, it is! And you honestly have to decide for yourself what you want to do and how you want to go about it. Some people think that they shouldn’t have to reveal the fact that they’re trans* until absolutely necessary, and some people think they should be upfront. In the end, it’s up to how comfortable you are with yourself!

~Mod M