#a damn goldmine to make me lose faith in humanity every day
essiegolden out here speaking to my life!!Wow! I’m happy to see many of you feel the same way I do
Sure, fat people can standards. Everyone has the right to have standards in who they find attractive - but, and this is a big but (lol big butt) so does everyone else.
All too often we see people in HAES act as if there is something wrong with those of us who don’t routinely find overweight and obese people attractive.
Well, turn and turn about is fair play, kids. Yes, you absolutely get to be attracted to whoever you feel attracted to, and have standards of attraction, and standards of behavior, of course you do; to think otherwise is utterly abhorrent. But other people get to decide that you are unattractive to them, and to find your behavior around eating and self care to be unpleasant and distasteful.
I can’t even count the times that fat chicks claim “fat is beautiful” and say that they think “fat guys are unattractive” in the same damn breath.
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