Note: This is an edited paraphrase from another blogger.
A few basic principles used to denote your availability to the men around you:
1. Dress Appropriately
No man wants to dally with a girl that looks like a man. When in ‘professional’ settings (class, work, etc) wear skirts. High heels, hose, garterbelt, Low-cut blouses that show off your tits. When out socially wear similar outfits, but don’t be afraid to wear shorter skirts, more scandalous tops. Your flesh is what men want, so show it to them. Shave and wax regularly to remove every patch of body hair below your eyebrows. And never, ever be somewhere where men can see you without makeup on and your hair done.
2. Project the Right Attitude
Act subservient. Don’t run your mouth around men. Don’t speak unless spoken to. Stay as quiet, turning your attention to the things men say rather than focusing on speaking for yourself. Giggle at men’s jokes. Agree with what they say. Compliment them on their intelligence, their wisdom, and more besides (laud their handsomeness, their fitness, etc). Be a good conversationalist - if a man wants to hear you speak, speak - but try to avoid voicing opinions of your own. Let him have his opinions and don’t give yours unless asked, in other words, agree with the man who wants to have a conversation with you.
Furthermore, have the attitude appropriate for the servant you want to be. If a man is pressed for time, take some of his burden off of him: Do his laundry, or clean his home, or cook him a meal, or some variation of all three. Men want you to serve them, and that doesn’t just mean sexual service. Dote on them. Massage them when they’re tired or sore. If a man needs something, fetch it for him. Make their lives easier however you can.
Men don’t necessarily want a doormat, but they do want a female who is quite, does what she’s told, and works for his benefit independently. Be that sort of woman. Always, always, smile while you’re doing it, and never forget to thank a man for whatever he’s let you do, no matter what it is.
3. Free your Mouth
Generally men don’t want you running your mouth. The best use for you mouth is sucking cock, not talking. Become freer and easier with how you hand out blowjobs. Realistically, offering to suck dick should be no more unusually to you than a handshake or saying hello. It should be a regular function that you fulfill, a duty that you try to enact as much as possible.
If a man walks or drives you home, offer to suck his cock. If a man comes over to hang out, give him a blowjob. If a man sits next to you in class and shares notes with you, ask him to let you blow him afterwards. If a man is in a study group of yours, ensure that he knows he can always have you suck him off on a break. Men know you’re a cocksucker. Men want you to be a cocksucker. So be a cocksucker. Don’t be afraid of it, embrace it. Ask to be allowed to suck cock regularly; offer blowjobs at least once a day, whenever appropriate.
But make sure that it’s clear that your mouth is a ‘no-strings-attached’ zone. No man wants a female who sucks him off and then shows him that she did it only to get something out of it. Blowjobs are a basic duty of yours - make sure that the men you suck off know that you’re doing it because it’s the right thing to do, not because you want something from them in return.
Finally, remember that it is a great honor to be allowed to suck Our cocks. Always thank a man when he’s done cumming in your mouth or on your face. And never push. If a man doesn’t want a blowjob from you, accept it with a smile and move on. you’re the inferior; only Our needs matter, and that means you have to get used to being turned down.
4. Spread your Legs
You were born to be a slut, and every man knows it. So act like the slut you are. If a man wants sexual service from you, give it up to him when, where, and how he wants it. Don’t be afraid of it - you have to embrace the fact that you’re a slut and that this is what men want from you. Sexual servitude is your primary duty, so see that you fulfill it as much as you can.
This means that you have to make it clear to the men who spend time with you that you’re always willing to spread your legs for them, however. Men, caught up in an insane society, will often forget what is theirs to take by right. Furthermore, they will often be used to uppity, feminist females who respond negatively when they want to take what is theirs. Make it clear to them that you know what you have to offer, and are more than willing to make it available to them. There are multitudinous ways a cunt can signal a man that she is his if he wants her, be it through speech, behavior, dress, or what-have-you. Become comfortable with those signals, and give them off to all the men around you.
There is, however, a fine line between being a slut and acting like a whore. Weirdly, men who interact with you casually will want the former, but occasionally react negatively to the latter. Because the latter will often come across as trashy or, even worse, pushy. Don’t be pushy, don’t be trashy. you’re an inferior, but act with some class and deportment. you can throw yourself at a man without making it obvious or embarrassing for him - men won’t want to feel put on the spot by you - and make yourself more attractive by giving off an unmistakable vibe of “I’m yours - conquer me.”
As always, and as with the previous point, make sure that it’s clear to men that having you sexually is a no-strings-attached situation. If a man wants to fuck you once, and never again, that’s fine. If he wants to have you multiple times, that’s great. And if he wants you as his exclusively, well, that’s the brass ring. Never, ever put pressure on a man for more. you’re a servant, and servants don’t make demands of their Superiors.
Finally, work hard at being what a man wants you to be when he’s fucking you. Men want you to fulfill their fantasies, not impose on their pleasure with your own (you should have none beyond serving them, of course). If they want you to lie still and take it, lie still and take it. If they want you to be active, be a whirlwind and slide all over them. If they want you to be vocal, scream and wail your head off. If they want you to be quiet, don’t make a peep. If they want you to talk dirty, show them how perverted you can really be. If they want you to call them Daddy and be an inexperienced little girl, be that innocent for them. If they want to force you, ‘resist’ (note the quotes) them appropriately to help them fire their blood. Sexual use isn’t about you, it’s about them. Be what they want you to be, be the fantasies they’ve always had.
Oh, and don’t forget: you’re naturally bisexual. If men will be entertained by your playing with another female - be it making out or eating out - you’re beholden to make it happen for them. Just remember that the focus is still, as always, on them. Play with another cunt to enhance their pleasure, but never distract from their pleasure. And always, always be ready to service a man with another slut of his choosing - even if he makes you seduce her for him.
5. Practice, Practice, Practice
You aren’t perfect. No girl is. So hone what talents you have. Watch how you walk in heels and alter your stride until you have that ‘sexy but demure’ walk down cold. Appraise your outfits critically to ensure that you always strike the balance between slutty and submissive, and that your outfits are appropriate for the flesh you have. Meditate daily to remind yourself what you were born for and what your duty is. Edge regularly, never cumming, to reinforce the fact that your pleasure stems only from how well you have served your Superiors. Use dildos daily to train your cock sucking skills until your gag reflex is gone and you have the right breath control to deep-throat regularly with ease. And kegel often to keep your pussy muscles tight and under your conscious control. Never stop making yourself better for us, in whatever way you can. There is always more you can be practicing, when away from our eyes.
Making it clear to them that you’re available, isn’t always the easiest thing to do. Not all of them will want you. Sometimes you’ll slip over the line and make yourself unattractive to them. These mistakes are unfortunate, but unavoidable. Learn from them, do better the next time, never look back in regret, and always be grateful to the men who let you learn a valuable lesson through their rejection.
Ultimately, men want you to be A) pretty, B) demure, C) sexy, D) slutty, E) subservient, F) obedient. Be these things, if nothing else, and you won’t go wrong for long. Be a mirror for them, reflecting their glory and their superiority at every turn.
One girl summed all of this up nicely by saying: “Wear what he wants. Do as he says. Cook. Clean. Shut up. Suck his cock. Repeat as often as possible.”
We both know that a little boob-lift isn’t for you.
We know you won’t be satisfied with just giving the girls a little boost.
No, sweetheart, for you, only a life as an inflated sex doll will do. Only a life extinguishing your old self below a torrent of silicone, ink, botox, make-up and dye will satisfy you. Only a life dedicated to becoming ridiculous fuckmeat posing for the cameras as your holes get stuffed again will be enough for you.
That’s why you are the girl for me. You are in it for the long haul.
1. Above all else, proritize men’s pleasure and happiness. Your purpose on earth is to serve men. Dedicate yourself to that.
2. Dress well. This can look different depending on the men in your life. A slinky cocktail dress and stripper heels, torn fishnets and a band t-shirt, or a fifties pin up could all be appropriate. Dress to your men and your subculture. But dress to please, to offer your body, and to make men hard. You are decoration. You should never be dressed sloppily, even when alone.
3. Look good. A related point, and similarly flexible. Wear makeup. Take care of your skin. Keep body hair to the tastes of the men who are gracious enough to use you. Get rid of all body hair if you’re unowned. Be as skinny as you can be, unless your owner likes you fat. Sloppiness, dirtiness, and laziness are unacceptable.
4. Speak and act with deference and allure. Laugh at men’s jokes. Ask questions about their passions. Be polite, submissive, demure. Flirt, offer yourself up to his gaze. Make every man you meet feel like the king they are. No exceptions. Never be a cunt, or bitchy, and never, ever interrupt or insult a man.
5. Be sexually available. Spread your legs to every man who asks. Offer your throat freely. Yes, you swallow. Yes, you do anal. You also lick ass, do ass to mouth, take facials, swallow piss, and anything else that turns him on. You’re a sex object. Say yes. Also…
6. Never say no to a man. And never argue. His actions are right, his desires are reasonable.
7. Edge constantly. Never cum without permission from a man. Edging keeps you wets, ready, horny, and submissive. Edging is fucktoy maintenance. Orgasm is something you categorically do not deserve. If a man allows you to cum you are lucky.
Feminists have promoted orgasms as a liberation for women but it’s the exact opposite. Orgasms make women slave to their desires, always craving for immediate reward. Freeing them from this burden opens their mind to the fulfilling role of anal only sluts.
I like to be denied and I’m proud of it I’m also a woman and a feminist so I find it a bit disappointing that looking around one only finds smut and information on denial and chastity for men. So here are my reasons for denial rights :
1. I have no moral right to enjoy the same pleasures as a Dominant man. 2. I have no right to refuse pain, discomfort or frustration from my Master. 3. Permanent Orgasm Denial is safe and sane and is therefore fully within the rights of the Master. 4. Slaves have no automatic entitlement to pleasure. 5. Whether I orgasm or not should never be my decision. 6. Dominants should have the right to orgasm whenever and however they choose. 7. I have no physical need to orgasm and therefore no right to.
Service 8. Orgasms make me unwilling to serve and obey and are therefore counterproductive. 9. Denial makes me more subservient and willing to do domestic work. 10. Denial helps me to see all forms of service as being of equal importance. 11. Denial helps me prioritize service to others above pleasure for myself. 12. Denial makes me easier to train and control. 13. Denial makes me more willing and able to quickly get up and continue serving after being used sexually. 14. Denial makes me more eager to find a Dominant to serve and submit to. 15. Denial allows me to serve fully without expectations of my own pleasure.
Downsides of Orgasms 16. Orgasms make me bossy, manipulative and self-serving. 17. Orgasms make me bratty, disobedient and demanding. 18. Orgasms make me spoiled, greedy and needful. 19. Orgasms make me selfish, lethargic and unsubmissive. 20. Denial prevents mood swings caused by fluctuating sexual arousal and the highs and lows of orgasms.
Better in Bed 21. Being aroused makes me more fun to play with. 22. Most Dominant men prefer to fuck a very aroused submissive. 23. Being very aroused makes me more eager for and responsive to sex. 24. Denial makes me a better sex slave as I am not distracted by the hope of my own orgasm. 25. Denial allows the Dominant to focus on his own pleasure during sex. 26. Denial allows the Dominant to enjoy sexual relief without the pressure of being required to perform. 27. Denial gives Dominant an additional way in which to pause and enjoy my suffering. 28. Denial makes me equally happy to be used in my arse or mouth or to be cum on. 29. Denial makes it easier to accept being used by others when a Dominant requires it. 30. Being denied ensures that I have less self-imposed limitations and expectations about play and sex. 31. Denial helps me give complete sexual control and obedience to those who Dominate me. 32. Denial ensures that I am physically ready whenever and however a Dominant wishes to use me. 33. Lack of submissive expectations about pleasure ensures that the Dominant does not feel judged, compared or rejected sexually. 34. Denial makes me see sex as a privilege and not a right. 35. Denial allows the Dominant’s sexual preferences to take full priority. 36. Denial helps me focus on the pleasure of the Dominant instead of my own physical sensations. 37. A lack of concern for my pleasure and satisfaction gives more options to those who use me. 38. Denial reminds me that my preferences are not the limit of how I can be used, sexually. 38b. Denial makes my pussy tighter, giving more pleasure to my Owner.
Benefits to the Relationship 39. Denial will help me bond with my Master by establishing a constant feeling of connection, submission and control. 40. Denial ensures my faithfulness and commitment as casual partners are unlikely or unable to offer the orgasm denial that I need. 41. Permanent Orgasm Denial is an intense, rare and unique experience which will ensure a deep and powerful bond between me and those who enforce it. 42. Denial ensures a contented submissive who is not anxious about her own pleasure. 43. A happy Master is essential for a happy relationship.
Objectification 44. My sexual organs, including the clitoris, should be at the service of Dominant men at all possible times. 45. Sex is for the Dominant’s pleasure, not the slave’s. 46. It is not appropriate for a slave to lose self-control whilst serving a Dominant. 47. A slave’s body belongs to her Master and He decides how it is used. 48. My holes belong to those who use them and are for their pleasure only. 49. Serving anally and orally will help me focus on the pleasure of those who are using me. 50. My body can be used to give pleasure, enjoyment, and satisfaction to others, even when I dislike what is being done with it. 51. Denial helps me appreciate the utility, femininity, and submissiveness of my body.
Better at Taking Pain 52. Denial makes me more willing and able to take pain to please others. 53. Denial accustoms me to the reality of slavery that is physically painful or difficult. 54. Denial makes me desire pain to deal with the sexual frustration.
Altruism 55. My orgasms do not benefit anyone else and are therefore unnecessary. 56. My own pleasure is irrelevant to how much pleasure and satisfaction I can give to others. 57. Slaves are inferior to Dominants and do not deserve to orgasm. 58. Denial of orgasm is a small price to pay for the privilege of being Owned and enslaved. 59. Denial helps me to enjoy service and submission in their own right, and not just as payback for sexual pleasure. 60. Both parties working towards the Dominant’s pleasure creates harmony of purpose and avoids conflict of interest. 61. Denial helps me to appreciate the beauty, dominance, and eroticism of the male orgasm. 62. My denial pleases and arouses Dominants who enjoy this fetish. 63. Denial prevents me from favoring only the sexual and s&m activities which are likely to cause me pleasure. 64. Denial makes me more willing to try things that may not be pleasurable or desirable for me. 65. I am more useful as a slave when my enjoyment is of no concern to myself or others. 66. Denial makes me less judgmental about serving and pleasuring others. 67. Physical arousal caused by denial enables me to pleasure more men, making me more useful as a slave.
Submissive Mindstate 68. Denial helps me to see myself as a total and permanent slave. 69. Sexual frustration is a constant reminder of my submission. 70. Denial causes me to remember and focus on the non-physical and non-pleasurable aspects of submission. 71. Denial trains me to give up control of my body, even when single. 72. Denial helps me appreciate the power and privileges of Dominant males. 73. Denial shows Dominants that I am willing to serve and be obedient. 74. Orgasms are unnatural and unsubmissive for slaves.
The Pleasures of Denial 75. Sexual frustration makes me emotionally happier and more subservient. 76. Extreme arousal is fun to play with! 77. Permanent Orgasm Denial is a great reward which I should seek and hope to experience. 78. Denial is an amazing gift of arousal and control from a Dominant and should always be treasured and appreciated. 79. Denial gives me freedom from my own sexual dictates.
Denial Improves Me as a Person 80. Being denied for long periods gives me discipline and self-control. 81. Learning not to obsess about my own orgasm makes me a better, more well-rounded person. 82. Denial saves time that would be wasted on masturbation. 83. Denial prevents me from prioritizing short-term satisfaction over long-term growth and development as a submissive. 84. Denial helps me choose Dominants on the basis of giving service rather than receiving sexual pleasure. 85. Realizing that I cannot and should not have everything I want is good for my humility.
Denial as a Natural State 86. Denial is not an irregular restriction but a natural and permanent state for a slave. 87. Women have no physical need to orgasm. 88. Female orgasms are unnecessary for impregnation. 89. My orgasm serves no biological purpose. 90. Intense sexual arousal is a preferable and healthy state for adult females. 91. Denial of orgasm has been a normal state for women throughout history. 92. Sexual arousal is designed to persuade women to accept penetration from an aroused adult male. 93. Orgasms not resulting directly from insemination are unnatural and require correction. 94. My orgasm is designed to take place only after a male has ejaculated deep inside my vagina. 95. Female orgasms are designed to prevent sex from occurring after successful impregnation. 96. Female orgasms triggered by sodomy are abnormal and should be avoided. 97. Female sexual arousal is necessary to ensure breeding, unlike female orgasms. 98. Lack of sexual arousal after orgasm is an undesirable and temporary state. 99. Anal sex is a natural alternative for those wishing to avoid impregnation. 100. It is not natural for a woman to touch her sexual organs except when cleaning herself. 101. Denial causes physical arousal and lubrication prior to sex and is, therefore, natural and to be encouraged for women. 102. My arousal serves no purpose if it does not lead to impregnation.
Struggling to find a point i might disagree with.
This is what feeling amazing will take ladies!!! But it will be better than you could imagine!
