#daddy advice
- Good morning texts to wake up to telling me how important and loved I am
- Good night texts to see before I fall asleep that remind me there is no place you would rather be than with me
- Random thinking of you texts that help to keep me little throughout the day; remind me that I am your princess, baby girl, little one, and/or kitten - remind me that I am irreplaceable
- A bed time routine so that I can have some sort of consistency in a world that is constantly changing
- Genuine praise over the pictures I slave, but also enjoy to color for you (Not just an, “Oh, that’s nice” or “I like it” - this leads me to believe you either don’t like it, or don’t care)
- Small surprises - whether it’s my favorite little space snack (frosted animal crackers), food from my favorite place (McDonald’s), my favorite flower (peonies), or something little like a sippy cup or a new paci
- Consistent, but not constant attention; I know that you have responsibilities and things to do, you are a daddy - but at the end of the day, I want to know that I am the center of your world
- Interest in my likes, dislikes, thoughts, hopes, and dreams; you should love not only little me, but big me as well
- Rules, discipline, and guidance; there are things that I struggle with or want to achieve and I need your help, remember, I’m little and my biggest wish is to become the person you will make me, so help me
- Help with the small day to day activities, nothing makes me feel more cherished than when you kneel before me to help me tie my shoe in the same manner that I kneel before you, with complete reverence
- Affection and physical touch; a pat on the head or a kiss on my forehead not only lets me feel your complete ownership over my mind, body, and soul, but also signifies your approval of my actions which is what I seek above all else
- And of course, stuffies, every little, ageplayer or not, requires stuffies. To hold, to play with, to sleep with - especially when Daddy is not around
I love this so much. It’s literally exactly what I want. And want to give, to someone
This…the commandments of Daddyhood. Pretty basic DD/LG stuff, but a great reminder for anyone who wants to be better for their little.
Little things busy Daddies can do to make sure their little girl feels Daddy’s love and attention.
❤ Refer to her by pet names like princess, little one, baby girl, etc.
❤ Refer to yourself as Daddy. Like you can say “Daddy loves you!”
❤ Check on her health. For example: “Did you drink enough water today Princess?” or “Did you brush your teeth and take your ni-ni meds?”
❤ Pick out a movie for her to watch while you’re out.
❤ Ask her to draw or color a picture for you while you’re at work.
❤ Give her a chore to do while you’re out so she feels useful to you.
❤ Remind her of any alone time or special time you have coming up. Let her know you’re looking forward to it.We littles tend to need lots of reminding that we are loved and cared for. Even if we know it deep in our heart our silly heads have lots of worries and doubts. Little things like these can go a long way to quieting those doubts.
Love this ❤️
