#fandom resources
Just as a reference, these two posts are written by fanfiction loving gay cis men, who have a lot of great first-hand knowledge of the kinds of sex that two people with penises have! They are (used to be?) really well known, but I know a lot of younger folks may be writing fic and have never come across them!
Minotaur
A well known classic, incredibly informative website with tons of information. Rather dated at this point with regards to the cultural descriptions, but the mechanics are spot on!
Gay Sex is All Wrong in Fanfic
More recently written (2014), and addresses a lot of misconceptions that tend to pop up in mlm fic written by afab people!Enjoy!
Rest In Peace, Minotaur. (He passed away over a decade ago.) he taught many fandomgoers so much via his website, & I’m glad to know his site is still an available resource (even if the terminology is no longer up to date.)
