#fathers day

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mostofmylifeisnotthere:

With Mother & Father’s day coming up, please remember you are not required to be grateful to abusive parents. Please remember,

  • Don’t break no-contact.
  • Don’t let family guilt you into breaking no-contact.
  • Don’t feel guilty for living w/ them as an adult, you’re doing your best.
  • Don’t feel you’re betraying yourself if you have to give ‘appeasement gifts.’
  • DO put your mental & physical wellbeing first, as we know they won’t.
  • Maybe get yourself something, so many of us had to be our own parent anyway.
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