#flr marraige

Things that happened after I became a stay at home husband

1. I rediscovered my fitness. Suddenly I had time to take care of myself. No longer I had eye bags, I could exercise, lift weights, eat correctly. All of this may seem trivial but I was so tired and unhappy with my job and the travel time. I was this beaten up shell of myself just going through life without any care of what may happen to me. I now have time to love me and make me feel handsome, I act handsome.

2. My relationship with my wife is stronger now. Nothing says “I trust you” more than just letting her take care of me and be my provider and now she is so much more protective and loving. She has always being those things and yet she managed to give more. I learned that when a woman feels your trust and how you believe in her, she can not help but cherish you and treasure you, and I can never get tired of that.

3. She is doing so much better at her job and in her life. She gets home now only to rest, no more shared house chores. I remember her every day how great she is and that confidence goes with her everywhere, she had never been this strong and self assured and I cannot help it, I love her more for it. She loves my cooking and she gets it every day, if she’s tired I no longer drop dead next to her in bed, I make her some tea, I give her a massage. We have time to have sex, we both want now to have sex.

4. I have time to pursue my hobbies. I started this blog, I can fix or improve the house, I exercise, I cook new recipes. This is possible since there’s no need for me to work.

I know the most important part of my life, and the reason that we both are so happy is because we deeply love each other, not that I’m homemaker. We would be happy even if something bad happened and I had to go out to work again. There are also men who find their job meaningful and I will not tell any of them to give it up.

However, if there’s a man out there who can be at home, who wants to be at home but still is not sure about, talk about it with their partner, some women also want this and would like to be the provider. Life’s too short to not be happy.