#gender blender

I can’t stop thinking about how it started out as “masc people are valued only for their achievements, femme people are valued only for their bodies”, and then femme people fought long and hard to be valued for their achievements too. But now femme people are obliged to keep up their value on bothfronts, masc people feel like they have to double down even further on achieving in order to have any value at all, and each party sees the few shitty advantages the other party gets out of this as an acceptable substitute for being valued and supported as a person.