#it just baffles me

Why do people have this thing where they have to try to fix someone’s earrings, cuz they’re twisted or something, without warning the person first?

This happened to me at work today. Coworker was just trying to be nice, but seriously, warn a person first.

Due to an old injury, I’m extremely sensitive about people getting too close to my neck. The last thing I need at work is my brain going “shit, we’re under attack! Fire back!” before it finishes analyzing the actual situation. That’s happened before