#not evilness disease

friendlyneighbourhoodpapergay:

Yo real quick it is perfectly possible and OKAY for people with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder)to want and have healthy relationships.

Contrary to popular belief, NPD doesn’t inherently turn someone into a “master manipulator” or an abuser. NPD is a disorder created by trauma. Traumatized people are not inherently threatening.

If someone is abusive, that doesn’t mean they have NPD.

If someone has NPD, that doesn’t mean they’re abusive.

If any of my followers (or others who see this) have NPD, you are not a bad person for wanting healthy relationships.