#pan cakes

 *waves* Hello!

I am a 24 year old female pansexual.  It has taken me what has felt like an eternity to accept this as a part of myself.  It’s funny, but while I have always accepted people as they are, no matter their shape, colour, sexual orientation, dietary preferences, etc. But when it came to this part of myself, I struggled with accepting it.  With getting to the “I’m okay” part of it all.  

But, after all this time, I have recently accepted this.  And it feels… Good.

When someone isn’t quite sure how to react when I tell them, I like to make a light joke about not discriminating when it comes to attraction and love.  When you think about it, how could that ever be a bad thing? ;) 

I just wanted to say to all those struggling with acceptance when it comes to themselves, just give yourself some time.  Be patient with yourself.  Because, something like this is big.  It can be scary.  But in the end, it should be a very positive thing.  Never be ashamed of who you truly are inside, and never lie to yourself.

Because this is your life, and you only get to live it once.

Remember, you are not alone. And while I may not be an expert on anything, really, if you ever need to talk, message me! :)

I’ve been told that I’m a good listener.

Anyways, take care of yourselves and live the good life!