#shipping psa

Let your shipping partners know what’s up.

Truth has to be blunt sometimes. & I am in no way being a “passive aggressive” or “controlling” partner, or being “mean” when I say affirmatively: 

If you feel our ship is ending/fading out, or you simply don’t want to do it anymore, I’m an adult. Tell me. Because ghosting your partners is something childrendo. Yes, youdoowe your long term partners some kind of an acknowledgment instead of leading them on with half-truths,  wishy-washy responses, or radio silence. Now, to me, that looks like you’re done with my muse/our ship, so I’m going to back off and assume you’re done with my muse. But if you come back later all: “weeee let’s ship again!” or send romantic memes after ignoring me/our ship for so long, it makes for mass confusion. PLEASE. TELL. YOUR. PARTNERS. WHAT’S UP. Even if it’s in the form of an ooc post in general, let your dash know what’s going on. Obviously you shouldn’t have to post personal details, because every partner/verse is different and personal, but please, please,pleasebe mature and let your partners GENERALLY know you’re dropping verses. Communication is key in everything, not just imaginary pretend time.