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Her Straps ⛓️
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No Panties ⛓️
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His ⛓️
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Leashed ⛓️
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Ready for Sir ⛓️
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Submission ⛓️
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Ready for Sir ⛓️
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Spank Her ⛓️
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Safe ⛓️
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Ready for Sir ⛓️
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On his Lap ⛓️
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Suck It ⛓️
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His Mark ⛓️
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Training ⛓️
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Ready for Sir ⛓️
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On her knees ⛓️
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The rule is simple: N-O P-A-N-T-I-E-S.
At all.
Ever.
Not hard to follow… right?
Well…… She likes the “rub”….
Do All Submissives Go Commando?
Think of one of the sexiest things you can imagine in D/s. Does it involve a distinct lack of underwear? In public? It does for us, but for other kinksters, going commando is a hard limit. They want to, need to, or have to wear underwear. One day, maybe, we’ll get to a point where certain things don’t have to be said, but until that day, here’s another one:
Not every kinkster goes commando, and not every D/s relationship makes it part of their play.
And yes, some of us really love the no-underwear thing.
Commando Allows Total Access
I think many submissive’s who’s heart (and other parts) flutter a bit when a Dominant says, “I want access to all of you whenever I want.” For many hearing that is sexy and erotic as hell. The body in de picture belongs to Efteling. When I go Commando she will spread them too… Thinking about it is enough to make me very horny.
It goes the other way, though. Submissives aren’t the only ones offering total access to their sensitive bits. Dominants can grant total access if they want. For example when we’re hanging out at home in comfy clothes, sometimes the sub can slip her hand up his shorts and find hidden treasure. The difference is that I control whether my sub is allowed to touch me or not. But imagine the amount of teasing that can happen when you know your Dominant partner is bare, available, and waiting to be touched, and they deny both of you.
Do All Submissives Go Commando?
Uhhh, no. Some don’t want to. Others can’t for health or other reasons. And frankly, it doesn’t turn all people on. All submissives don’t do a damn thing. Some submissives in some D/s relationships where that works for both people sometimes go commando. It’s like anything else we do as human beings. What works for one doesn’t work for everyone.
You shouldn’t look at a submissive and assume they’re not wearing underwear. A Dominant should never just assume their submissive won’t. You have to talk about it. And yes, going commando is something to be negotiated. People have strong feelings about all kinds of things, and wearing underwear is one of them.
How to Talk About It
How you broach a topic depends on which side of the slash you’re on. That means, before anyone thinks I’ve lost my mind, that submissives tend to have better results when they respectfully talk about a thing they want. Of course, that depends on your dynamic. If the bratty, sassy innuendo works for you, go for it. From one sassy submissive to any others out there, make sure it’s what you really want or you just might get it.
Dominants, you can ask that your submissive go commando but be prepared for a conversation about it. If your submissive isn’t comfortable with it, doesn’t don’t to or it’s a hard limit, they are allowed to say that. Give them time to think about it, ask questions, and decide if it works for them. They may have work, home, or health reasons why it’s not a good idea. If that’s not an option, I assure you, there are a million and one other kinky things you can do together.
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Tied and Ready ⛓️
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