#slave training

candidate has trouble remaining in place. Is it too much excitement? Does she need reinforcement? Will work on positioning and silence

she cannot tolerate much pain. a pathetic level. Will reward her as we build her tolerance.

girl gets very wet in bondage! she wants this. craves it. Will use as reinforcement for other behavior …

The more she has to decide during the day the more stressed or tired she becomes. she has less energy to focus on her inner peace or on you.
Limit her decisions, help her build routines. she will retain her focus and be appreciative. she will experience bliss

Owners have asked what kinds of things I incorporate into training sessions. I tailor it to the candidate/slave while focusing on a few major areas for each. I usually devote a portion to overall obedience, learning, and sexual training. Every session ends with aftercare, no matter her performance as long as she gave effort.

Here are some notes from the first part of a training session with a candidate:

Learning

1. Positions
2. Perceptions of past vanilla life
3. Up means now
1. Use of shock collar and crop
   
4. Writing and divulging everything

Positions - A good way to get the candidate responsive; allows her to be ready for use intermittently when I feel like fucking throughout. It’s a good warm-up and I can see when she’s beginning to obey without questioning.

Perceptions of past vanilla life - Allows me to learn which areas, misconceptions we need to work through

Up means now - candidate has shown a lack of urgency, so this was needed early on in order to properly finish the training session as well as enforce obedience afterward

Writing and divulging everything - I give writing assignments frequently outside of training sessions, but I like the stress applied to her mind when she’s trying to fulfill a written assignment while going through the rigors of a training session. I will use these throughout (seemingly random to her) to judge her progress as well as decline into what I like to term “sex zombie”-ness

As a note, she doesn’t know “Oh, we are in the ‘up means now’ part of training.” she doesn’t know what she will do. Everything blends into another, and there is never a section which can be confused as rest or relaxation. Some parts last the whole session (for instance, if quickness to obey is an area in which she needs work this will be tested throughout the session), while others have a definite start-stop. I like to make sure I have a training plan before going in so it is never generic and the result for investing my time is a better girl.

Is she worth your time to train her? Will you get more than you put in?  Does she have the grit to stick with her transformation?

Your default answer should be “no” until proven otherwise.  The safe assumption is that she is like most people, and people want to be comfortable. Few people will stick to a diet and exercise program to improve their looks and health.  Few people will take measures to eliminate their debt.  Few people will organize their lives to continuously meet their goals.

Many self-proclaimed submissives will look to you to build their discipline.  she wants you to “make” her strong enough to achieve goals.  However, she needs a minimal amount of self-discipline, willpower, and grit in order to even follow your directions.

As a Dom, and hopefully a good one, you know how to maintain discipline in yourself in order to help instill it in others. But do not feel bad if you realize she will never reach the level you want.  Find one that will, she is out there.