Have no skill/power to ‘compensate’ for their disability
Are the experts in their own bodies, minds, and needs
If they are newly disabled, get called out for saying ableist shit (as a newly disabled person, self-hatred never ever excuses disrespecting other people)
Have their boundaries being disrespected classed as whump, not caretaking. Yes even if they need the medication. Yes if that includes forced hospitalisation. Yes even if they’re incapacitated-
Have complicated relationships with pain
Are physically active, even if that looks different to how an able person might do it
Get whumped in a way which has nothing to do with their disability
Are not perfect victims
DON’T HAVE THEIR DISABILITY USED AS THE ONLY WHUMP WHICH HAPPENS TO THEM
(A lot of this also implies to those with disabilities which aren’t physical, and I would invited people with all kinds of disabilities to add on ideas)
