#theyre actual soulmates
in canon anakin and obi are described as “two halves of a single warrior”, “closer than friends, closer than brothers”, “knew each other more intimately than lovers”, they “became men together” despite their age difference, best friends, “obi wan… always chasing after skywalker”, “if kenobi was there skywalker was never far behind”, “you were my brother anakin, i loved you!”, “you’re the closest thing i have to a father”, “neither can imagine life without the other”, erstwhile master and padawan, total equals, co-generals, brothers-in-arms, inseparable, “obi wan would want no other man by his side”, anakin is in canon the only person Obi-wan ever says I love you to, obi wan is upset bc he imagined anakin would be with him when he died, ahsoka considers them in canon her adoptive parents, obi-wan watches over and raises anakin’s kids from afar, anakin is both obssessed with and jealous of obiwan, obi wan literally longs for anakin and is undone with grief over losing him, they still have a vivid linked force connection 10 years after parting, obi wan buried their lightsabers together, anakin once ponders if he loves Obi-wan more than his wife
so literally any and all interpretations of their relationship are valid and correct, and id say their psychic/physical Force soul-bond transcends any single category and spills over into a soulmate love that is undefinable to our understanding of roles “on Earth” and is hopelessly tangled in the best of ways
