#too queuel for school
anti-abortion is murder.
If I could somehow find everyone who ever bullied me and ask them why they targeted me, not a single one would say it was because I was autistic. None of them even knew I was.
Instead they’d say it was because I liked Pokemon too much after it stopped being cool, or my clothes looked ridiculous and I wore the same pair of jeans 3 days a week, or that I was just weird/nerdy/unpopular. In many, many cases, that is what neurodiversity looks like. Not someone with an obvious disability, but someone who’s just weird.
I see so many allistics and neurotypicals on here that claim to be anti-ableism but turn around and make jokes at the expense of people who are eccentric but harmless.
If you’re an allistic that claims to support autistic people, but then you turn around and make fun of the woman wearing a bizarre outfit or the guy who speaks in a monotone or the teenager who carries a teddy bear everywhere, you are hurting autistic people who do those same things.
this is also why even non-diagnosed autistics are punished and abused by society, the bullying isn’t about being explicitly autistic, but rather that society has decided that the traits autistic people exibhit are “abnormal” and therefore worthy of punishment.
happily found this near where I am
There’s a post with two gifs showing ASL signs for abortion going around, unfortunately while correct the second sign and information along with it was added by a terf.
So here’s the original video by glassmenagerie on TikTok where they explain the two signs for abortion, the issues with one, and go over the signs for immigration as well because there’s a similar right vs left wing sign difference.
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Spaces added for readabilityPerson on screen: Did you know that in ASL certain topics have different signs depending on your political viewpoint? Let’s talk about it.
Fair warning the signs I’m covering are for abortion and immigration. If that’s triggering or you don’t wanna know: just scroll.
So first up, let’s talk about immigration. Specifically the signs used in regards to immigration. So, the correct sign is (right hand holding up four fingers, spread apart, and waving up and down from the left to the right of the screen) immigration, right? However if you’re signing with somebody who is very conservative or anti-immigration you’ll instead see this (signs the same sign with four fingers waving from left to right but with the other hand held parallel to the floor above the waving hand). Technically this (signs second option again) only refers to undocumented immigration. However there is a subsection of people who are so anti-immigration they use this (signs second option) for all of it.
And now for my favorite example. There are several signs for abortion. There’s the full neutral just finger spelling or the more scientific definition which can also be viewed as left-leaning - which would be pregnancy (holds right hand over stomach, domed slightly and pulls it towards the camera away from the stomach) remove (left hand held up perpendicular to the floor with the palm angled towards the body, with thumb and fingers slightly spread, right hand makes a claw like shape and swipes at the top of the left hand towards the floor).
(through a grimace) and then there’s the conservative and/or christian sign choice.
This one can be genuinely triggering so this is an actual warning. Are you ready? (holds up both hands with forefinger and second finger crossed in the sign for ‘R’ and moves them from the center of the body to the outside) The conservative and/or christian sign choice for abortion is baby (stacks hands palms up and makes a rocking motion) throw away (makes loose fists with both hands, opening them both as they move upwards towards the right shoulder).
As awful as that is it presents us with an interesting phenomenon that is absolutely fascinating in terms of linguistics. Talking about these topics in particular tends to be very polarizing within the deaf community. I mean, they’re polarizing everywhere but when signing about these topics the words you use are different. The vocabulary is entirely different. It’s not “abortion sparkle emoji” versus “abortion angry face.” It’s “removing a pregnancy” and “throwing away a baby.”
Do conservatives occasionally call it baby murder in English? Yes, that does happen. The word, the label, at the center of the topic is the same. Whereas in ASL that’s not necessarily the case.
This kid is awesome
Cute how people who say this shit dont say transphobia doesnt exist just because shitty parents might kick out a trans kid because they think it’s because they’re gay. It’s all terrible and parents being bigoted and neglectful and abusive. To parents like that it doesn’t matter if you’re gay or trans or ace, it’s all the same to them and they don’t want you in their family.
Using this as a “gotcha” to belittle the experiences of those who’ve gotten kicked out after coming out with the bonus of not even being believed for what they came out as is disgusting.
If you’re someone who’s so wrapped up in your exclusionary ideology that you’re denying the experiences of fucking children kicked out of their homes and abused after coming out, for the love of whatever you believe/don’t believe in, fucking re-evaluate.
Also to everyone like “this fake, aces don’t get offered conversion therapy”
In this recent UK study cis asexuals were the most likely to have conversion therapy equal to cis gay/lesbian people. And the most likely to have it offered.
Stop basically yelling Fake News!1 and re-evaluate why you refuse to listen to victims of abuse.
Also people should stop reblogged this with “why would a parent kick a kid out for not having sex??.”
1) Stop equating sexuality to behavior. Don’t do it with gay people, don’t do it for ace people.
2) Faith based groups, especially those who are not pro-LGBTQ don’t magically see aces as acceptable. They view them as not-straight therefore wrong.
3) If you are abstinent it’s supposed to be a sacrificeyousuffer through to show your strong faith. Sex is meant to be your reward for being married. Being abstinent in a faith based groups works until you are meant to get married, be fruitful, or summit to your husband. The moment you decide you don’t want any of that for yourself now or in the future it’s a seen as a problem.
4) You’ll note that lots of number 3 is sexism, sex negativity, and the forced continuation of nuclear families something that directly and indirectly adds to homophobia and transphobia. And instead of saying “hey this ace, this victim of abuse, gives us an opportunity to discuss all of those wrongs in society, plenty of people just reblog “but why would you kick a virgin out??”
Learn what asexuality is, and how our fight for liberation has benefits for everyone.
Aight, not gonna lie I need some help this month, it’s been rough this past year.
I have candles, soaps, and jewelry for sale here
If nothing in my shop interests you but you still want to help me survive this and next month, you can donate here too
I hate asking, but every account is in the negative right now, by a lot, my bank fees come out of an already negative account tomorrow (Currently -$34) meaning a double overdraft fee (Normally $40, so I’ll have to pay $80 for being disabled and poor) and my phone bill was also twice what it usually was thanks to a glitch at the bank that failed to pay my bill last month without my knowledge on top of that, and I am at risk of having my phone shut off if I cannot pay it all off this month (Another $116).
The CRA also recently told me I received an additional CERB payment in 2020 that I wasn’t entitled to, and must repay them a further $2000 that I simply do not have, and have no idea how to get.
Naturally all of these things are coinciding in the worst way.
Again, I hate asking, but I’m desperate and don’t know what else to do anymore as I don’t qualify for disability because I’m married and married after my condition kicked in which prevents me now from working anything I’m qualified for as I cannot walk fast or for a long time, let alone stand for any real length of time.
If you are American and use a period tracker app, download your data and delete it.
What Your Period Tracker App Knows About You
Meet abortion bans’ new best friend: your phone
“News coverage of digital forensics often celebrates its role in prosecuting serious felonies. But when it comes to reproductive rights, Conti-Cook says, the same tools “will be a powerful [asset] to police and prosecutors in a more criminalized landscape” for abortion seekers.” [Mother Jones]
“Unlike medical records held by doctors and hospitals, the information collected by health-focused apps isn’t covered by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA), a 1996 federal law that limits where healthcare providers can share your health information.
That means health app makers are mostly free to do what they want with the data they collect. […]
What’s more, even when your data is de-identified by removing identifiable information such as your name or email address, it can be combined with other information—such as your location, contacts, or unique identifiers in your phone—and traced back to you, research suggests.” [Consumer Reports]
Twitter thread from user @nandoodles about men in adtech who want to sell your period app data to law enforcement:
If you don’t think these people won’t use your data against you, I advise you to reconsider in light of Texas’s offering bounties. And that there’s other states considering offering bounties and vigilantism as well.
I’m sorry, this is not fair and I know it’s a pain in the ass to have to note all your info yourself in a journal, but it’s better to NOT give these people another tool to exert control over the bodies of people possessing the potential (regardless of how remote) for pregnancy.
Also: support your local abortion funds. Cash is a more difficult trail to follow. https://abortionfunds.org/ways-to-give/
i hate those posts that are like “what if your mother aborted you?” because it’s LIKE. i value my mother as having her own agency above my existence simply because she came first. if she aborted me, id be fine with it because in the fucking hypothetical of un-existence & knowing, id rather her have access to safe abortion than having to carry & birth when she didn’t want to like wtf kind of egotistical question is that. do u not value yr mother in the least. whatever joys you’ve gotten out of life aren’t greater than yr mother’s choice
I used to hear this question a lot, and it instantly filled my limit break bar every time, because I got to respond, “oh, well actually, my mother aborted the one before me. Yeah. She got pregnant in college, and since having a baby would have really messed up her whole life, she aborted it. Then, because she stayed in school and didn’t have a kid to take care of, she went on to grad school, where she met my dad. Then they had me when they were in a safe, financially stable situation. So…yeah - I literally wouldn’t exist if my mother hadn’t had access to abortion.”
One hit derail of the conversation. try it, it never failed.
Aight, not gonna lie I need some help this month, it’s been rough this past year.
I have candles, soaps, and jewelry for sale here
If nothing in my shop interests you but you still want to help me survive this and next month, you can donate here too
I hate asking, but every account is in the negative right now, by a lot, my bank fees come out of an already negative account tomorrow (Currently -$34) meaning a double overdraft fee (Normally $40, so I’ll have to pay $80 for being disabled and poor) and my phone bill was also twice what it usually was thanks to a glitch at the bank that failed to pay my bill last month without my knowledge on top of that, and I am at risk of having my phone shut off if I cannot pay it all off this month (Another $116).
The CRA also recently told me I received an additional CERB payment in 2020 that I wasn’t entitled to, and must repay them a further $2000 that I simply do not have, and have no idea how to get.
Naturally all of these things are coinciding in the worst way.
Again, I hate asking, but I’m desperate and don’t know what else to do anymore as I don’t qualify for disability because I’m married and married after my condition kicked in which prevents me now from working anything I’m qualified for as I cannot walk fast or for a long time, let alone stand for any real length of time.
ppl joke and say that a lot of liberals weren’t paying attention in schools but like . it’s true..i rlly don’t think many of them realize the biggest changes this country has ever seen in regards to civil rights have been earned through violence, protest, riots, war in our own country, directly going against police even when faced with incarceration, NOT from voting, something as simple as free breakfast for children in america didn’t have its origin from voting, it came from actually getting involved in the community, if u rlly think voting is the end all be all for social change u have been deluded and lied to, pick up a book