NSFW Ask

Please only keep reading if you’re 18+

[Also: how many people would be interested in a NSFW/ 18+ side-blog? I want to keep this one rated G, but sex-positivity and body image problems can be especially difficult for trans people to navigate. Let me know in the replies?]

Hi anon!

(Sorry I didn’t answer the ask directly, I want to keep this blog safe for minors to combat the stigma that being trans is an 18+ subject! So I’m trying this method for replies- lol - hopefully I’ll figure out a better system soon. 

Anyway, the censored words are strap-on and fucked, sorry if it feels like I’m making this weird, I’m all for sex-positivity, but like I said I’m trying to keep the main blog rated G.)

Anon, enjoying “bottoming” does not make you a gay man! What defines your sexuality is your sex partners, not the sexual acts. 

For example: plenty of lesbians like to be on the receiving end and that doesn’t make them straight. Straight men that like being fingered/pegged by their gf aren’t gay. Straight women who don’t like penetration aren’t automatically gay. Gay men who don’t like bottoming/anal aren’t straight. People like what they like in bed, that defines their kinks/fetishes, not their sexuality. 

Also: being attracted to dominant women is a super common straight dude thing? You might enjoy bottoming, you might be enjoying your gf topping, ideally both, but either or might be enough to get off. Honestly, if you don’t have bottom dysphoria, or can manage your bottom dysphoria to the extent that you feel comfortable having penetrative sex, good for you! The human body is capable of amazing things, and if you can take advantage of those G-spot orgasms, then you’re a lucky guy!